Amen to that!!
Alarmed at what, exactly? Her own attractiveness? Man, I’d love it if I got that kind of reaction.
As a woman, I consider it a compliment.
You may want to ask her to tone down the affection in public, though, so you’re not embarrassed.
"Honeyyyyyyy, you’re making me haarrrrrrrrrrrrd again… People are loooookingggggggggg…
Every time my wife and I share a kiss that’s more than a hello/goodbye peck, I get a chub. Every time. She likes it. A lot. Watching me rearrange my package following our every halfway serious smooch makes her smile.
What woman wouldn’t enjoy knowing her man (or woman as the case may be) thinks she’s hot?
I would consider it a major compliment. I like to know that I can make a guy feel that way that easily…
Another vote for: You are complimenting her without effort. Really.
At age 77, ANY erection is cause for exuberant rejoicing. Handle it, buddy, handle it!
My baby’s British accent makes me go zwong. He loves it and frequently uses this fact to torment me.
I get one when I hear his voice on the phone. Not a problem, unless I am at work. Scrubs don’t leave much to the imagination. :eek:
Joining in the one-up-manship, I was lying on a couch, talking face-to-face with a good, platonic male friend when I became acutely aware that his erection was basically pinning me against the back of the couch, or so it felt. I gently brought the matter to his attention and we rearranged ourselves. While we were both a bit embarrassed at the time, I took it as a compliment, and still do. It also deepened my trust in him because of the way he handled it, so to speak.
samarm, if I were your wife, I’d take it as a compliment, and be that much happier I married you.
Besides, it could be worse. I remember coming across a story about a young man in college who not only got an erection while his girlfriend was dumping him, he actually came while she was hugging him good-bye. That must have been one terrific hug! :o
CJ
Yes, but if your woman starts getting a woody, I’d be a little worried…
>>I can only imagine that she would be quite alarmed if she knew how frequently she gives me a boner.<<
I can’t believe that. Why not just ask her? It could be a very romantic conversation. 
jmpride62: I hear ya. Talking dirty on the phone gets my motor started also (not that I make a habit of it!).
Monstre: Her horniness manifests itself in… ahem… other ways, and she doesn’t mind telling me all about it when she’s “in heat”. I don’t want to go too TMI here, but let’s just say the word “moist” is used.
From the replies I’ve read, it’s obviously not just me that’s afflicted with a “sensitive trigger”. Hey, I’m not bitchin’ about it - I guess it’s something to be happy about.
In twenty years your trigger won’t be so sensitive, and you’ll wish it were. Live life big, I say.
Not talking dirty or phone sex - he has a soft, sweet yet masculine southern accent, and it still gets to me. Just, “Hey What’s Up?” and I sometimes go BOING!
The mind is a powerful thing.
I’m quite sensitive myself in this regard, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Cjhoworth, I actually happen to have this particular problem 
Basically it is like premature ejaculation to the extreme. If I am in a situation which is sexually arousing (could be just caressing a girl or having a stripper dance in front of me) I’ll actually ejaculate then be unable to get it up for quite some time. It was the reason I haven’t had sex yet- I had an opportunity, but things weren’t exactly functioning properly at the time. Its something really humiliating to deal with.
Lad, trust me, with the right woman, that won’t be a problem. This is from experience. Sex may be about the most fun two people can have, but it’s not the most important thing, nor is any one aspect of it.
CJ
That is comforting news.
Actually, after discovering I had this problem, I wasn’t nearly as curious about having sex as I used to be. And the problem never happens when I’m alone, so to speak.