No, they don’t.
I win!
No, they don’t.
I win!
Yes I’m not lying all it took was a song. The song spurred every female celeb to do lesbian scenes, fake bisexuals, etc. I can’t giv you an actual study with the 90%since most girls don’t consider their lesbian experiences in surveys. You even have this woman above me who is blatantly bicurious not admitting to it, so that’s why the numbers seem lower.make sense?
I don’t know why, but when you say that it sounds like a bad thing…
What we are saying is that your baseline sample size is far too small to make any statements about "most girls,: since you are really only talking about “the girls who go to the same clubs as I do and who are likely to perform sexual acts while I’m looking.”
That is a very small percentage of women, even in Miami.
So…you tell me I am wrong about my sexuality and I should just go “Ayup, I guess he’s right?”
What YOU don’t seem to understand is sexuality is a mutable thing, and really I don’t care about this ideal of a “true, I mean real heterosexual woman”. WTF is that anyway, and more importantly, what difference does it make? I am functionally 100% heterosexual. I have never even kissed a woman or touched a woman in a sexual manner and never intend to. I have fantasized about women in the past, but have never been sexually attracted to any woman I know in real life.
To me, that’s het enough to be called het. But what you are getting is, you making the definition doesn’t mean jackshit until we self-identify as such. My sexual identity is mine and mine alone and no one else can define it. I consider myself het; who are you to say otherwise?
Cite?
Until you can come up with some reasonably objective evidence that this statement is actually true for “most girls”—by which you seem to mean “over 90% of 18-24-year-old women in the US”—then it remains by default in the “unproven bullshit assertions” category.
Sorry, but that’s just the way rational analysis of social phenomena works. Your own personal experience, or the combination of some part of your own personal experience plus confirmation bias, is simply not adequate to establish a sweeping generalization as factually true.
No, this is for my experience, others I have spoken to in Miami, as well as others online from other states as well as in the UK.
Well, in my experience, 90% of all women (I cannot speak for what girls do, as I do not go to places that attract children) are married (some to other women, but that is irrelevant) and drink either wine, light beer, or martinis on Friday and Saturday evenings. None of them perform any public displays of sexual attraction at these times.
Therefore, you are wrong.
I can’t change what you label as, but bicurious is what you are. Why do you choose to not say that. I’ve met so many omen like you who are bi curious so it is normal. The few straight wome I know have never fantasizes about women which is why I said truly heterosexual. you are attracted to girls, like most girls, which is bicurious, but if you call yourself heterosexual then fine. It would be much easier for other lgbt women if all you would come out the closet so we can realize that homosexuality, at left for women, is the true norm.
And you are above the age of 25 or even the age of 35 I’m guessing which is what I would extend female bisexuality up to. Your experience is with older, more heterosexual women.
I am rather surprised that the campaign for ‘something else’ marriage has not taken off yet, give that there are almost 3 times as many of them as there are gay people.
Or, in other words, WTF!?!
I must say, I am also rather surprised to see the gay percentage put quite that low, but perhaps I spend too much time clubbing. (Oh wait! I don’t! . . . Well, only in the sense of clubbing women over the head and dragging them back to my cave. You have to do that because they are all lesbians, you see.)
Cite?
Until you can come up with some reasonably objective evidence that this statement is actually true for “most girls”—by which you seem to mean “over 90% of 18-24-year-old women in the US”—then it remains by default in the “unproven bullshit assertions” category.
Sorry, but that’s just the way rational analysis of social phenomena works. Your own personal experience, or the combination of some part of your own personal experience plus confirmation bias, is simply not adequate to establish a sweeping generalization as factually true.
The burden of proof is to show evidence correct? Well the evidence you showed of heterosexuality I. Omen was already debunked earlier, so you still haven’t provided any. I gave you my evidence already. You want more? If so, show me your evidence first.
I think that this is Yakuza, pretending to be in Miami, and stepping up his game.
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I don’t even know who this Yakuza is.
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I took that comment as a joke, not an accusation.
I can’t change what you label as, but bicurious is what you are. Why do you choose to not say that. I’ve met so many omen like you who are bi curious so it is normal. The few straight wome I know have never fantasizes about women which is why I said truly heterosexual. you are attracted to girls, like most girls, which is bicurious, but if you call yourself heterosexual then fine. It would be much easier for other lgbt women if all you would come out the closet so we can realize that homosexuality, at left for women, is the true norm.
Ok. Well, i don’t owe a responsibility to all lgbt women, other than treating them with respect, and I certainly don’t think I am in the closet. So…whatever.
And with that, I am bowing out of this thread.
I live in Alaska and there is a large lesbian community here, I have to admit that most of the lesbians in Alaska are extremely butch looking, complete with flannel and wool hats.
Fred, you would do well to actually look up the definition of “bicurious.” From what I read, it is different from how you use the term. You would also do well to consider the following: when everyone says you’re wrong, it may indeed be because you’re wrong.
OkaynI’m very confused on your opinion on his. Can I ask what you’re experience is? I remember you saying that only the higher up women do this behavior, but now you’re saying it’s all women? Do you work with models or something? Are these model straight women you are talking about?
I’ve worked on various TV shows over the years, also in local theater. I’m specifically talking about attractive young women who work in glamor industries. Most of them identify as straight, though one woman I knew called herself “the biggest dyke in Hollywood” even though she sometimes dated guys. Actresses, singers, extras, models, makeup girls, costumers. These categories can overlap, of course.
My overall point is that there’s not really a “lesbian crisis” even here in sunny Sodom and Gomorrah. Women do this when they’re young and crazy. They probably won’t be doing it when they’re 35.
I make no claims for middle America, for regular people, or anybody you’re likely to meet at the county fair.
Look, I’m 24 years old. Ever since Katy perry became a hit every girl and their best friend is bisexual.
Katy Perry wasn’t even the first woman to have a hit single called “I Kissed a Girl.”
I’m not sure of your age, but in this generation
We’re in the same generation.
it’s considered rare for a girl to not be bisexual.
No, it isn’t. This was already debunked.
Look, most girls now say they are bi
No, they don’t.
That means that the girls in boh our experiences are bisexual.
No, it doesn’t.
You don’t hear much about girls who don’t kiss girls since they don’t exist in the uS.
This is not only wrong, it’s so full of holes that it’s impossible to take seriously. Do you actually mean any of this?
Fred, you would do well to actually look up the definition of “bicurious.” From what I read, it is different from how you use the term. You would also do well to consider the following: when everyone says you’re wrong, it may indeed be because you’re wrong.
I know that, which is exactly what the woman above me is. What is the problem? Actually, there’s been mny in he who have sided with me. At the Ashe time, the ones who said I am wrong haven’t brought evidence ai haven’t refuted.