My sister and I have not really spoken in over a year. She controlled her oldest son and he had enough. It came to a head when his father passed away (my sister’s ex-husband). She is mad at me because she thinks I should tell him to get over it and just talk to her again. He is 27 and married with kids.
So in October I called my mother (who lives with the sister) and asked if the sister would be there that Saturday. I was told she was going out of town. I said do you mind if I stop by and see you. She said that would be great. I texted said sister and asked that she put my two handguns and pearls in my mother’s room so I could get them. She said fine. She has been holding them hostage for over two years. I drove over there with my daughter, daughter-in-law and grandson. They stayed in the car because my mother calls all the time asking about my nephew’s son and never anything about them. So they were over it.
My nephew asked me to see if I could get his stuff from the house because he does not want to go over there because my sister can be violent. I asked and all she wrote back on the text was “is this from my son?” I said yes.
I got to the house, went in and sat down and tried to talk to my mom. She was getting very defensive about my nephew and I kept telling her I did not want to talk about it. I finally told her, I’m sorry but I’m going to go. Love you and will talk to you later. I reached over to get the two guns (in a soft case) and my pearls. I had the guns in one hand and the pearls in another. My sister burst into the room screaming at me and telling me to look what “I” was doing to her mother.
I have tried my best to stay out of all of this it’s between her and my nephew and has nothing to do with me. Her two other kids will not speak to me because it’s all my fault that their brother won’t talk to them.
She told me to get the Fk out of her house. So I gave my Mom a hug and kiss and said I’ll see you later. She stood in the doorway with her feet and hands against the door frame and would not let me leave. I tried to move her and got my head knocked into the doorframe and my hand accidently hit her in the face. It was the butt of my hand because I was holding pearls and I was trying to move her hand. She brought her hand down. When that happened she proceeded to pound my head with her fists and calling me all kinds of names. She knocked me to the ground and I don’t even remember falling. I had about 7 large lumps on my head, a lump on my jaw and a lump on my face by my right ear. She kicked me and told me get up you fat Ct, a phrase she used many times. I told her I need a minute (I’m 61 and she is 8 years younger than me).
When I was sitting there trying to remember where I was she told me I was not part of the family anymore and never had been. My mother who was in the room sat there and I remember her saying stop it Jacquie. I got up and told her you know, you are a narcist and it’s so sad.
I got to the car and got into the driver’s seat and told them I can’t drive someone needs to. My daughter said why what’s wrong. I said she hit me. My daughter said who Nana?? I said no Jacquie, and both my daughter and DIL were out of the car and knocking on the door.
My sister kept trying to get them to come into the house and said what the bitch needs body guards now. She told them she is my sister and I can hit her anytime I want.
We called an ambulance, and of course the police showed up as well.
After explaining everything to the cops, I was given a ticket because of the neighborhood my sister lives in. she claimed that I attacked her and she never kept me from leaving. My mother (who my sister abuses mentality and verbally abuses) agreed with my sister.
So now I have a court date and they did nothing to my sister. I had lumps, bruises and a concussion.
So what happens next???