Fish:
Wake up and smell the glove.
Anyway, yes I see what you mean. I was thinking the same thing after having re-read my OP, and no this is the only post on this subject; there is no back story.
The problem lies in the fact that I told her I was attracted to her. That complicated things on my part. I know she’s attracted to me. I can sense it, and her friends tell me the same. She’s not happy in her current relationship. So I went for it, and failed.
This complicates the matter because I don’t want to be her friend really. I want to be her boyfriend. There is a point of no return. I can’t go back to just pretending it never happened. In essence we can’t just be friends again.
I’ve decided not to pretend to hate her, because I don’t. I was just angry because she got angry.
I opened myself up, and she took it as an opportunity to gut me - all because I refuse to hang out with her and her boyfriend together. It is uncomfortable. And I feel taken advantage of.
So I refused to do it, and will continue to refuse to do it. The sour grapes are sour indeed I admit, but one day hopefully it will all just be water under the bridge.