About the taste: My wife tells me that when I have eaten celery, my semen tastes sweet. I don’t understand why, but I have grown to greatly enjoy celery.
Actually (and I’ve wondered if this is a manifestation of laziness), my favorite fellatio is good old 69, especially when we can synchronize. That takes lots and lots of (very enjoyable) practice. When my wife comes at the same time I ejaculate, sometimes it feels other-worldly. And when we are well synchronized it’s strangely like we’re each doing ourselves as well as each other, all simultaneously… But then, too, we’ve had decades in which we have learned and improved and tailored our respective techniques to each other…
Very true. My best instruction about cunnilingus came from an ex-girlfriend who knew exactly what she wanted and gave me specific instructions. Since then I’ve adopted additional techniques, but she gave me a very solid foundation. The main one is that, in the same way that a blowjob is not just about the mouth, good cunnilingus is about your fingers as much as it is about the tongue - stroking the labia while licking the clitoris, rubbing the clit with a thumb while licking the labia. If you’re going to do any anal stimulation, pick one finger or thumb for that and use it exclusively to avoid potential infection.
The “lick the alphabet” thing is nonsense. As far as I can tell, the idea was to keep a guy down there for at least 26 letters.
Thank you; so am I. May I add that your partner is fortunate and/or deserving of your willingness to work with him, so to speak; it sounds as if you make it a labor of love.