Depends upon how long he takes. Sometimes if it’s been a really long session you get “blowlock” (the combination of lockjaw, and blowjob that occurs when your lips go numb and your jaws no longer function properly:D).
And we don’t do it because we “think we’re being clever” SHEESH. You honestly think that we DON’T know that the man can tell the difference between our hands and our mouth? How condescending!
Hopefully the man has enough of a brain to REALIZE that if we’ve been going down on him for a half an hour and he’s not done, that our mouths are going to be tired, especially if he’s somewhat well-endowed.
Though to tell the truth, I’ve had boyfriends say that they had a difficult time telling the difference (I have an interesting stroking technique, when I DO bring my hands into play for that “last stretch”).
Whether giving or receiving, for me hands are a distraction, and you might say “cheating.” They just don’t feel the same as a warm wet mouth. But I realize other people feel differrently - “not that there’s anything wrong with that.”
My GF uses both mouth and hands but for the last several dozen BJs she’s had me use my hands while she uses her mouth. She’s complained about how long it takes me to finish so after a little solo BJ on her part, she’ll grab my hand and have me “help out”.
I use both, but I use the hands more as an addition to than in place of my mouth. And yeah, sometimes I’ll let up with my suction for a little bit if my jaw’s starting to ache, but I still use tongue & at least one hand, while the other hand’s exploring.
You’re not. And Mikie’s wrong. You’re no more obligated to include gay guys in your thread about oral sex than a gay guy would be obligated to include straights in one of his threads. Your orientation is your own, just as much as Mikie’s is.
In my opinion, Mikie was more than a little fast on the draw with the “homophobe” card and wrong on tghe issue besides.
In any event, you don’t have any control over who posts here or what they post.
What, no “mouth only” fans? My GF had the prowess to use her tongue in the right way, i.e. on the glans, and alternate head work with deep-throating. No hand needed at all. The trick is in the sincerity, that’s the hard part to come by (both puns intended).
My husband likes it when I give him a blow job and hum at the same time. He says it feels cool. I also use my hands with my mouth, cause I can’t fit him all in, along with the other hand on his scrotum. He says I give the best blow jobs Course, I wouldn’t know not having given them to anyone else
Okay are you guys going to hate me if I brag a little and tell you I gave a fabulous one last night in the gazebo on the lawn of the State Capital building? My bf has totally gotten into this risque outdoor thing lately…sigh. Crazy man - I love his spontenaity though… so in addition to technique, maybe other things come into play as well like venue and sponenaity and chemestry…you think?
Is this an example of a homosexual * forcing* his/her views or lifestyles on others? Or am I reading too much into that. I personally dont have an issue with it. I just thought it was common courtesy among gays to not do this. (Well, since it isnt exactly mainstream yet).
If the OP wanted gay input he would`ve asked.
Otto you could have answered without playing the gay card. Mikie too.
What’s with all the gay shit? The man asked how guys prefer to get blowjobs. Not straight guys, just guys. And he asked how women prefer to give them. He didn’t ask how men prefer to give them because, well, he’s straight and doesn’t automatically think of men when he thinks of somone giving a blowjob. So sue him.
Besides, he was asking about something as it relates to his sex life. Presumably, his sex life doesn’t include blowjobs from men, so discussion of how men give them is pretty irrelevant. Not bad or dirty or wrong or frightening, just not the information he was looking for.
This is quite possibly the most ridiculous example of manufactured offense I’ve ever seen.
Course, I wouldn’t know not having given them to anyone else