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I dated one of those for three years. He cheated on me the first two years and the last year was just a pointless waste of time.
I ended up finding out because the girl he was cheating with (an old girlfriend of his btw) sent me the emails because she’d hacked into his account. Lots of “lovely” pix . . .
I am so much better off w/o him.
You’ve got hugs from me and a pint of the virtual ice cream or beer of your choice. Sooner or later you’ll realize you dodged a bullet, but it does take a while. You already know you’re better off. You’re just waiting for your heart to catch up.
mhairi2222 I do know what you’re going through. My ex husband used to do dumb crap online as well as IRL.
Be well rid of the jerk. I know it hurts but time really does help. All the old adages really do hold true too. You DO deserve better and all that jazz.
Be well and do something nice for yourself!
Yeah, get it out of your system before moving on to that cute guy from Dundee I keep hearing about.
Good luck!
:huggles: For what it’s worth, this will be really funny someday. Eventually. Trust me on this.
Hugs from here, and my dog is sending some cyber pee to the wan*er’s leg…
{{hugs}} and home-made orange-pineapple-ginger ice cream to you, mhairi2222.
May you pass though this quickly and go on to find someone deserving of you, and may you have a great life, and become famous for charity work among the refugees/donating money to music schools/promoting sane and sensible living/saving puppies and kittens/whatever volunteer cause floats your boat, and be invited before the Queen/the President of Europe/Aga Khan/whichever leader commands your allegiance, and get on TV, and may your ex be watching TV reflected in a store window as he sits in his cardboard box among the other beggars, and suddenly see you all radiant and beautiful and happy at the awards ceremony, and may he realise, “Maybe I shouldn’t have been so selfish…” But by then it will be too late.
tacklehugs
I can see why you’d be miffed, but a complete dealbreaker?
Yes. Absolutely. Skeevy beyond words. Yes.
Would it be possible for him to talk his way back in?
I don’t know about the OP, but to me this behavior signifies a much, much more serious problem than infidelity. Maybe my standards are unusually high, but what the hell kind of man sends pictures of his penis to women over the internet, much less when he’s engaged? I’m pretty sure not the kind of man I’d ever want to be with.
:: nods ::
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Congratulations on dodging that bullet. That just skeeves me out (and I’m kind of a perv myself).
Just back from my conference trip with work, and Thank you all so much for the kind words!
REALLY needed to be hearing them!
And to the people who don’t think it’s a complete dealbreaker, I disagree completely. It wasn’t just a random girl on the internet, it was a girl he’s known since she was about 12, (she’s now 17) and he is 12 years older than. And someone who had spread shit about me cause she was jealous I was with him. And the other girls were girls he knows IRL too. So it is a COMPLETE f*in dealbreaker. He’s a weak ass bastard, who needs help, cause the shit he used to spout about loving me and never wanting to be without me, was SO intense, and ALL ALONG he was fucking around behind my back. from the very beginning. he is fued up!
and LOUNE, no, it would NEVER be possible for him to get back in with me. I’d rather eat shit than ever be nice to him again.
Thanks for all the hugs, they do help. And to anyone else feeling particularly shitty right now, I send big hugs to you too.
Mars xx
Um… ew, EW, EW, EW, EW, EW!!
That’s just foul! Good riddance to bad rubbish, to be sure! What a skeevy, pervy creepazoid and I’m so glad you didn’t find this out later–this may hurt but it’s nothing to trying to explain to a child that Daddy moved out because he can’t keep his penis away from cameras and other women…
Oh, and BTW it’s perfectly okay to cuss up a storm without the use of **'s–we’ve all heard these words in a sentence! If you can’t cuss about shit like this, there IS no appropriate time or place at all!
This may be an unwelcome or, indeed, completely inappropriate question, and if so please feel free to ignore it…
…but I cannot wrap my mind around how that conversation must have gone.
YOU: Look, I’m breaking up with you. Goodbye.
HIM: What? Why?!?
YOU: Because you’ve been sending pictures of yourself, masturbating, to a seventeen-year-old girl!
(pause)
HIM: No I haven’t.
YOU: Yes, you have.
HIM: Look, I think I would know if I had sent…
YOU: I have the proof right here.
(pause)
HIM: Oh, yeah. THOSE pictures.
Seriously. How does that conversation even happen?
What is the age of consent in Scotland?
I have another vote for Put it on YOU TUBE with: (Deadbeat’s name) and his amazing WANG!!!11!!!
Good Riddence to Bad Rubbish!