I’m sure this is going to make me sound like some sort of naive, attention-whoring twit (and while I’ll definitely cop to the stupidity of my naiveté and twitness, I’m not looking for any flirting or nothin’ – I just have very few IRL people to ask), but I’ve never had a casual sex relationship. And since I’m pretty fucked up, but not like I’m talking about, getting involved in anything even remotely serious (or with potential to head that way) is completely out of the question. Add to that, I’ve only been with three men and now I’d like to meet someone and become, uh well, whatever, but have no idea how to go about it or what the logistics are.
I have no desire to do the clubbing thing (and besides, any decent ones are too far from where I live) and posting personal ads just makes me seem more goofy than I already am. What does that leave? Trolling a local grocery market? I don’t want to invest in any deception to land anyone, so posing with a child as mine won’t work nor saying I’m a secret operative for the CIA at the next cotillion. Also, I’m assuming you discuss one’s history and the ground rules involved, but is that it? What happens if the perimeters change? With me being typically unstable mental fodder, is this a bad idea all around and I should stick to electrical appliances and books? Or give it a go and not miss out on probably what most of the rest of the normal world has experienced? At 18, no less.
Thanks for any help and squelching of desire to play to your prurient, most base desires when responding. If not though, what the hell. Enjoy at my expense.