I mean, given that the skimpy tops are often accompanied by skimpy shorts 'Tits and Ass" is really the theme . . . and IMHO calling them that simply expresses the crudeness of the restaurant’s ‘theme’.
Simply because the restaurants themselves are crude, that does not compel people talking about the restaurants to be crude. And of course tone is set by the writer, not the reader, and what was crude about your post was using terms like “boob-dinner” and “breastaurant”.
For what it’s worth, the latter term (crude though it may be) is, in fact, used in the industry itself, and by the media in articles about such restaurants. And, the term was trademarked, a few years ago, by one such chain (which is apparently now defunct).
And do I need to go through FQ and see how much “crudeness” there has historically been there before you’ll admit that this note is nothing more than pearl clutching?
If “breastaurant” is the industry term, as @kenobi_65 indicates (and given his background in advertising, I take his word), then I don’t see how it’s too crude for FQ.
Some of those should have gotten notes too (not all IMO). If your point is that sometimes mods miss things and/or they don’t get reported, your point is made.