I will try that Sunny
I did get some ground beef and rice in him by opening his mouth and shoving it in.
I can’t believe I’m going to bash my dog, but if he wasn’t such a little asshole this would go a lot easier. This dog has never been hit, or beat, or abused in anyway but he acts like it. It used to take three of us to get his harness on him. He can’t wear a collar because of his neck wrinkles, and still getting a harness on him is a chore with him wiggling, and squirming, and as he has gotten older and blinder, he has started snapping at us.
We have to drag him outside because you can’t pick him up without him flipping out and snapping. It takes 2-3 people to trim his nails. Trying to hand feed him, he eyes the food suspiciously, he smells the food suspiciously, then he walks away.
He has never been super affectionate, and now we can only pet him on his terms. I can go days without petting him - yet he follows me everywhere. When I go upstairs he waits me for at the bottom of the stairs and is all happy wag wag when I come down.
Any change in routine sets him off.
I took him everywhere as a puppy. I took him pet sitting with me, on walks with other dogs and he hated every minute of it. He has always hated going for walks. He doesn’t like anybody but immediate family, never played much - he is just weird.
Even taking him to the vet is a big decision, I have to weigh the stress of the trip with how sick he is, and will it make him even worse.
I think it is the shar pei side of him. It’s certainly not the pug side.
It’s okay that he is weird, I love him to death, but I am so tired of everything having to be a damn fight with him and being treated like I am the enemy.
I know the cat won’t bother him though, he is more than happy to share his space with anything that leaves him alone. He shared my mother’s back yard with a ground hog for years, the squirrel out back comes within inches of him. Even when he could see and hear, he didn’t care about anything in the yard or house. As long as it didn’t bother him, he didn’t bother it. Even when the neighbor’s dogs would go off and start barking at him, he’d stand there and stare at them like they were little assholes.
I am just so frustrated with him right now.