Could you boink someone you don't particularly like?

I have done it in the past (20+ years ago), but those days are over. If I don’t like you, you’re not getting in the front door, much less into the bedroom.

Given someone I actively disliked but still found appealing led to some pretty torrid banging. Serious wrassling matches just to determine who got top.

Eventually learned the old chestnut about " Keep your enemies closer" was coined by someone with a really perverse sense of humor.

Hey, I don’t particularly like Vanilla Coke, but I’d still take a can if you offered me one after I’d been crawling through the Sahara.

That must be nice!

That was really jerky. You could have waited until the next day or something at least.

I don’t want to get naked with anyone I don’t like. And I would be incredibly skeeved out if I found out I had boinked someone who didn’t like me.

I would feel great about that. They didn’t like me, but still found me so hot that they bonked me regardless. I’m a guy, though. I assume it would be very different for women (I have no idea if **Sparky **is a woman).

Ditto.

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Would you, could you, in a box?

Would you, could you, with a fox?

No fox required. Box optional.

Au contraire. Tight box mandatory.

I would anger-bang the smug, superior, snarky attitude right OUT of the current Wendy’s spokesgirl.

Now THAT’S better.

Depending on the why for not particularly liking.

No, because my wife would get really mad if I did.

Sparky is a woman, but I don’t know that there’s strictly a man/woman divide here. Plenty of ladies in this thread have no objections to sex without the emotional component.

But yeah, since I have a brain that wants sex to be part of an overall positive interpersonal connection, being used as a RealDoll analogue by some guy who doesn’t even like me is gross.

A couple of times, I’ve met someone who I discussed the possibility of an fb/fwb relationship, but then when I met them in person, there was no attraction, but then I had sex anyway because I was too scared to tell them there is no attraction. :frowning:

Well, maybe not a strict divide. The poll results so far suggest a trend, though.

I’m absolutely not a fan of sexual double standards, but the fact is that, for biological/physical/traditional reasons, male/female sex is, or can be perceived as, a potentially threatening situation for the female, and for a lady to engage in it, there usually needs to be emotional trust beforehand. If someone was to find out in retrospect that they partner didn’t like them much on a personal level, of course they might feel used / feel that trust betrayed.

For men… not so much of an issue.

I answered as if I were unattached. The only person I have or plan to ‘boink’ is my wife, but I imagine I could bang some hot chick I didnt like in some alternate reality where I’m unattached.

Back in the day a friend was trying to set me up with a guy. He called and in the course of the conversation I found out he was pretty into violence (for one thing, he blew things up for a living, and it seemed like he just liked destroying things). I was kind of a hippie peacenik at the time, so I managed to avoid making a date, and when I spoke to my friend later I complained to her: “do you know what he does for a living?” She was from Texas so with her drawl she said, “Oh, honey, I don’t let them TAAAWK.”

In the past, there had been times where if you had tied a rattlesnake down I would have fucked it.

Lately, not so much.