Could you please stop making gay men look like screechy, hissy drama queens?

Hmm? Oh, nothing, really. It’s just that apparently Esprix figures that if some guy makes a remark that he, Esprix, finds boorish, apparently he’s entitled to figure that the boor in question is tarring all of straight mankind - so I thought I’d see if what’s sauce for the goose is gravy for the faggot. Pile right on.

Yes, I know “sauce for the gander” is the usual expression, but faggots are very often served with gravy over here - and they’re delicious that way - so I think the idiom still works.

Very good pun.

You will be flamed for it.

S’okay. I saw the sign on the door when I came in. :cool:

Wearing the cool shades won’t help ya…

Are those little sunglasses? I always thought they were gaping eye sockets. Learn something new every day!

Fuck.

So, Manhattan is winning in the pit thread race for Mods and Esprix is seriously in the running for homo posters.

Now… why is Esprix here again?

Because some asshole gets offended that Esprix explains why something offends him.

The boy can’t fucking win for losing.

If he expects tolerance towards gays and transgendered, also expecting offensive terms not to be used he is politically correct and nitpicking.

If someone just flings a term into a debate and he says something he’s screeching and you “think” that gives you the “right” to call him a faggot, you festering pustule on a demon’s rectum.

Do the internet a favour and shut your computer down and cut all the cables to reduce temptation.

See, I told you so.

Pah, that’s like predicting the sun rising in the east. No points for you jjimm.

Now to really wind up Mockingbird we need Scylla to post some general agreement to the OP.

Scylla can be annoying. Scylla doesn’t pander to slime just to entertain others with a firestorm of wrath.

Get a hobby, Gary, and move on.

I don’t suppose there’s the slightest chance you can tell me what the fuck you’re talking about?

Read the sentence for context.

A dictionary can help you understand the words bigger than three letters.

Reading is fundamental.

Hello Mockingbird,

Please note that I used the word faggot only in the context of a wordplay on a well-known phrase or saying. True, the pun only works because of the generally-understood meaning of the word in reference to homosexuals, but I submit that this is not directly equivalent to using it as a term of opprobrium. When I wish to call someone a faggot directly, I’ll gladly undertake to see that there’s no possible room for doubt.

As a straight man myself, I take considerable exception to being branded an “ignorant fuck”, even by association. Yes, I do consider that this gives me the right to repay the perpetrator in his own coin. I may elaborate on this later. Do I consider that Esprix has no right to express himself at all? No, of course I do not.

Now, as to your demon’s rectum reference, here’s another well-known phrase or saying for you to reassemble out of its component parts: (a Christmas fuck Go tree with yourself). Time allowed: thirty seconds.

GK, I assume, from context, that I’m the one who’s pandering, and by deduction, you must be slime blinks. I’m sure MB can explain if I’m wrong.

Can we have a link please?

(Mockingbird - have an auld read of this.)

Well Malacandra, as a straight male, I don’t think you need to worry about being branded ‘an ignorant fuck’ by association.

Care to elaborate, Who_me?… or do you think your marvellous witticism makes your point all by itself?

Ah Mockingbird, such wit. Now if we can just accept for a second that my reading level is reasonable, could you please explain just who you think does “pander to slime just to entertain others with a firestorm of wrath”, perhaps with an example of such behaviour?

UK Dopers,

I know you guys probably mean no harm, but just FYI, in the US calling a gay man “faggot” is as hurtful and ugly as calling a black man a “nigger” or a Jew a “kike.” Yes, Esprix shouldn’t have said that one man’s comment tars all straight men, but that is no excuse for using the most hateful epithet you can throw at a gay man.

“Faggot” is the word one hears when a beer bottle is thrown at one from a moving car; it’s the word you hear when you is hit on the back of the head with a chain as you come out of a gay bar.

I know you think you are just hoisting Esprix by his own petard, but I don’t think you quite comprehend the raw visceral hatred of gay men that word reflects. That word is meant to make us feel subhuman and powerless. Please think before you use it to attack another gay man here. Thank you.

your friend,

Gobear.

Oh, for fuck’s sake. There were people complaining about the unnecessariness of that thread (which I disagree with, by the way) and your solution is to make ANOTHER one?

Chill out. Go get a hobby or something. Esprix did not transgress greatly if he did transgress at all.

Esprix/Gobear,

I apologise for any offence any of my comments in this thread have caused.

I’ll take this as a compliment. I’ve had few enough recently and feel a little down.

As for the OP:

Yes I suppose technically, semantically, straight men in general are implicated by Esprix’s comment.

Big frickin’ deal. No offense was clearly intended. None need be taken. No autopsy, no foul.

Nothing to see, here.