Esprix for whatever god-forsaken reason decided here that me being straight is unacceptable. Apparently he’s been fucking adjudged the arbiter of all gender roles – I didn’t know! I bitched about getting an unsolicited sex call from a man I met a year ago, Esprix feels it necessary to respond thusly:
Yeah, I’d say your judgment’s pretty fucking clouded. Dustbowl-style. Yes, he feels that it’s his right to say when any guy needs a dick up his ass. What the hell? When given a chance to clarify his remarks in the morning, he says:
That clear now? It wasn’t a joke, he actually thinks he has the right to tell people who to sleep with.
Esprix, is a goddamn hypocrite! Nobody has the right to tell anyone else who they should and should not sleep with. Does anyone think if I had been a lesbian woman getting a call from a random straight guy – anyone would be allowed to say “You should have taken a dick up your pussy, It would make a woman out of you.” Hell no! This would be immediately dogpiled here as hate speech, and rightfully so. What, since you’re gay and have had troubles, you get exemption from being an asshole?
Shit on a stick! Over here, Esprix complains about people attacking his life and his love – Hey, Golden Rule, Mr. fucknugget, If you want that – start by not attacking other people’s lives and loves!
This hypocrite seems to think it’s ok to minister gender conversions as long as it’s Straight to Gay and not the other way around. That should be obvious on inspection, but the search engine proves it:
So tell me, how is Esprix not a hypocritical (gay) asshole?
Ace - I would recommend asking a Mod to close this thread asap. It is going to turn really, really nasty.
Your thread title alone appears homophobic, because you have included “and gay” alongside two derogatory words.
I do not know if you are homophobic or not, but your thread title and OP are questionable, so I suggest you get this thread closed, settle down, and try to repost more carefully, if at all.
Why? Gay people can’t be hypocritical assholes? They have hypocritical asshole exemption powers?
No. They’re like everybody else. Some are wonderful guys whom I love to hang out with, and some are hypocritical assholes. That’s the way of the world of equality.
No, the way you stated it Ace, screams bigotted asshole.
Saying Exprix is a hypocrite and an asshole is one thing, throwing in gay for no reason is different.
Would you say “that asshole cut me off today” or that “black asshole cut me off today” , if you use the latter, you are a racist, same with arbitarily using gay like you did.
I should add: Because being gay has nothing to do with him being an asshole(not saying he is), same with the fact that the guy that cut you off was black had nothing to do with him cutting you off.
Uh-huh. I’m sure you mean well, Istara, but there’s no reason I can’t put “and gay” alongside anything, is there? Individual people can be both gay and assholish – or if not, I want this clarified, I’m sick of this PC rubbish.
Questionable? Hell, everything is “questionable” to some folks. I’m questioning what’s “questionable,” here, so please define what “appears homophobic.” Mentioning that a person is gay in the same paragraph as a derogatory word? In the same page?
Then once I get past the gay-censorship brigade, I can maybe post something, you know,“if at all.”
Not weighing in on the actual merits of Esprix’s comments, I do see what **Ace ** is attempting to do with his useage of the term ‘gay’ in this thread. ‘Gay’ is a hot button for a lot of individuals and I think he’s acknowledging that Esprix is gay, but separating that out from his complaints.
C’mon guys, calm down, see it for what it is rather than what you think it may be contrued as. Otherwise you basicaly prove **Ace’s **point that one can NEVER mention that someone is gay and then include derogatory comments about other qualities without being bashed. Although, calling the guy a ‘pipe-smoker’ or something of that nature was probably a vitrioloic mistake… Although I admit to teasing my gay guy friends and calling them ‘Peter Puffers’ meaning it in a completely friendly way…they call me various things, too
Actually weighing in on Ace’s original thread, you subtract that comment and it works…I’d be pissed off, too. The ‘gay’ comment was necessary due to the fact that not only was it a freaking year-old booty call, the caller could not be sure of Ace’sorientation. And while getting hit on by someone of the same sex is not a bad thing (which Ace acknowledged) it IS when you’re trying to do a year-old booty call. It’s simply RUDE.
You had me worried for a minute, your OP made it sound bad. But (due to his reputation more than yours) I had a look. I’ve had a few quiet ales, so it wasn’t a good look, but your first quote leaves out a pretty important line:
So the part you quoted is not saying what happened is fine, it’s just a nasty flame saying you are a jolt-needing fuckknuckle. I can see where he’s coming from.
Ace - whatever you meant by your post and its title, the positioning of the word “gay” looks like you meant that word itself to be an insult. Which would be homophobic.
Eg: “You are smelly, ugly - and also stupid.”
vs “You are smelly, ugly - and also black.”
Can’t you see the problem with this statement? It reads like the third word is intended to be an insult, whether you meant it to be or not.
I suppose you have never said one thing and done another…
Hypocrite indeed… I’ve been guilty of hypocrisy, Esprix is probably a hypocrite (although certainly not for the reasons you mentioned) but you sir, are MOST DEFINATLY a hypocrite!
I don’t know about that, honestly. In the right contexts, I don’t think it would bother a lot of women if someone told them that all the needed was a good deep dickin’. Context is key, of course, as is knowing well the recipient of such humor. It’s hardly hate speech prima facie. From reading the threads, it seems like Esprix thought it was an appropriate context, and clearly you don’t.
I agree with istara and others. Close this thread, stat.
Sounds like an absurd justification to me. Yes, he is gay, and his statement reflected his sexuality. However, his “gayness” has nothing to do with him being an asshole. If he was black would you say "Exprix is a hypocritical (black) asshole. Saying he is a hypocritical asshole would work just fine because him being GAY is not relevant to it. You are slopping that statement in there like a spoiled childish bigot. You, sir, are the hypocritical asshole. Not he.
But justifiy your homophobic, slimy, bigoted ways any which way you want. It doesn’t change the way that you are a hypocritical (straight) asshole.
