Join me, if you have the balls to retrain your brain.
I wore a watch from the time I was 5 years old until last year ( 37). Never.went.a.day.with.out.one.ever.
I own 10 watches. Some actually even work and I still have my very first watch. I love watches.
I was running my life on a schedule dictated by The Clock. Eat at this time. Sleep at this time. Read at this time. Nap for two hours. The kids and I fought over meals and bedtimes. Not alot of fun. I decided to chill out and ignore the clock and pay attention to their body rythms. Instead of “We Eat At 5pm.” I have everything ready and simmering, and we eat sometimes between 530-7pm, when I start noticing their behavior acting up from low fuel. Bedtimes are later with more, less rushed readings involved and mornings are not rushed most of the time as I lay out their clothes the night before. My naps are judged now on hitting the sheets when I feel tired, not because " At 2pm I always take a snooze for an hour." I wake up more refreshed.
I don’t even look at the clock most of the times in the AM because the kids know breakfast is over, they dress and brush their teeth and are at the backdoor ( beating the crap out of each other) and I need to warm up the car. We haven’t been late yet, even when I’ve misjudged the shitty (dirt washboard) roads we have right now and terrible snow conditions. If we are late, so what, a few minutes isn’t the end of the world. This coming from a girl who was.never.late.in.12.years.of.formal.education.
I realized that I was a slave to time and needing a watch was useless since my car has a clock, my cell has a clock and eveyrone around me has a watch/cell phone. Yelling at kids " It’s ten after and we have to leave in fifteen minutes" automatically slows them down to negative three hundred. Or speeds them up into hyper-spaztic drive, causing more problems.
I freed up my mental space considerably when I gave up wearing watches.
I highly, highly, highly recommend: In Praise Of Slowness:How A Worldwide Movement Is Changing The Cult of Speed I heard about the Slow Movement about 10 years ago and went, " Huh. That’s very interesting." Never forgot about it, wanted to visit a slow city and all that and I got this book from the library and it is excellent with wonderfull little bits of humor gently interspersed.
Get rid of your watch. Stop being ruled by time. Rule your own time.
Viva La Revolution!
I’d shut up now, but I cannot recommend it enough. Yeah, I’ll be proletyzing through your mailslot anyday now.

) but I went to the beach with a friend today and realised how seldom I actually look at my watch.