So, I’ve sort of started seeing a girl, and we’re getting together tomorrow night. On the off chance that I get lucky, I’m curious about the Dope consensus on the appropriate etiquette associated with that initial act.
I’m not talking about virginity sex (neither she nor I are virgins). I’m talking instead about the first time you knock boots with this particular person. Similarly, I’m not asking about pre or post coital small talk. Instead, I’m talking about what you think is appropriate during the act.
First time: oral sex? doggie style? Lots of moans, or do you keep it under wraps?
My thoughts: go overboard on the oral sex (especially as a man going down on a woman; yes, your neck is going to get sore. But, it’s good to lay the groundwork for reciprocation later on :D). Don’t go too crazy on the positions; missionary and cow girl are good. Asking her to turn over, or put her legs behind her ears, should probably wait. A few choice "ooooh, you’re so hot!"s are good, but save the really kinky talk (nothing about anybody’s momma or daddy). Squeeze the ass? yes. Spank the ass? no.
Of course, if you, esteemed reader, are a female, and you want to balance upside down with your head hanging off the edge of the couch, while digging your nails into my back, and begging me to fuck you harder, well…Emily Post would be proud.
What say you?