faking orgasms

I used to 100% disagree with women faking. Lying to us poor guys like that.

Then I faked one night coz I was really drunk and I was fighting brewers droop and also needed to sleep and just couldn’t keep going but didn’t want to piss the girl off or hurt her feelings. I was wearing a condom which made the faking easier.

Now I’m torn.

Well, at least the condom wasn’t torn… :wink:

Doesn’t matter since he faked it. :slight_smile:

You know, I think the problem with a woman faking an orgasm is that the man is going to think whatever he is doing is working, so he’s going to keep doing that. Now if whatever he was doing wasn’t getting the woman anywhere near orgasm, its probably going to be a chronic habit.

I don’t fake them, but I also almost never have an orgasm during intercourse. Just doesn’t happen. The only times I’ve had orgasms during intercourse were when I just happened to be having intercourse while manually bringing myself to orgasm.

My wife never fakes it.

There isn’t time.

Regards,
Shodan

I’ve never had to fake it. I think I’m lucky. Except for the fact that I’ve only had 1 orgasm during intercourse. I don’t know what’s up with the angles or whatever. Is that important to you guys? I’m completely happy with taking turns, getting mine during foreplay or postplay. What’s also interesting to me is why I’m multiorgasmic with myself but it’s really freakin painful if he tries it?

Anyways, to get back on the subject, I don’t think it’s right for a woman to fake it. Sometimes I’m just too tired (or too drunk) to have the big O, and I just tell my guy. It doesn’t happen often, usually I tell him from the beginning it’s going to be a quickie anyways. It was mentioned that it’s ok for a woman who is nonorgasmic at all to fake it, I agree with that, but damn, she should be trying on herself to find out what does excite her.

I was going to say the same thing as Incubus.

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Do ALL women have multiple orgasms? Seriously, cuz me and my b/f fight over this. I have tried and tried and had him try and it just doesn’t work out. So I told him it was not possible for me, he says I’m just not trying enough.

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Thanks ever so much for your generous contribution to the Get-WL-fired-for-laughing-at-work Campaign.

There was a good discussion on faking orgasms a while ago:

http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=139463

You may find it interesting reading.

By the way, I feel this is more GD material!

Certainly not mundane, anyway… :smiley:

If I remember right, Masters and Johnson said that only about 25% of women can obtain orgasm through intercourse alone, and only about 10% are multi-orgasmic.

But that’s my poor memory and the Masters and Johnson report is decades old.

But at least it’s a guideline. I’m not sure where one would look for resources nowadays.

I can have several orgasms, maybe 5-10 minutes apart…
…but most guys can’t give them to me, I have to do it myself. When guys try, it seems like it just tickles, makes me laugh, and then it becomes almost painful.

Funny, I’m the exact opposite. My boyfriend is the only one that has been able to produce multiples for me. And I tend not to try “taking matters into my own hands” I’m more likely to turn myself off.

Oh, and you can always tell if my orgasm is real because I cry. Well, not cry exactly, but tears.

This is such a personal thing, it will vary wildy from person to person. Don’t forget that having orgasms requires skill and effort on the part of both man and woman. Each persons experiences will be different. YMMV is the key here.

My own experiences I have already discussed in detail in the last orgasm thread. In summary, I have rarely had trouble making a woman orgasm, and my curent partner and I really click when it comes to sex, so she normally has several.

Opal: Just saw your post. My GF sometimes cries after several intense orgasms. I thought it was just her, but I have heard from other people that this happens also (discussed in the other orgasm thread above, and the recent Sex Poll thread). It’s not as uncommon as you may think.

That’s a good question. That’s a really good question. Oh my God, that’s a good question. That’s a gooooood question. Oh, God what a GREAT QUESTION! YES! YES!!! YES!!!

Whoo boy…that was the best question I’ve heard in years.

Don’t forget about this one, which was started about a month earlier. :wink:

Huh? Doesn’t compute… oh I see… who the hell bumped this, then? I thought it was a new thread…

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