I’ve had a couple of GFs who considered my anus an erogenous zone*. I think they got a lot more out of it** than I did (and I got a lot out of it). It’s nice, because it’s something that would never occur to me on my own.
*Anyone else bothered by the term erogenous zone? “The erogenous zone is for loading and unloading only. There is no stopping in the pink zone.”
**No, that’s not what I meant. But the jokes will write themselves.
Anal play still have the spice of being transgressive. As astounding as it is to this 49 year old, blowjobs have become such a normal and accepted practice that some young people don’t consider them “sex”. “We fooled around, but we didn’t have sex” - meaning that they engaged in oral sex. It’s baffling to me - if genitals are involved, it’s sex.
If blowjobs are no longer “sex”, and fucking is just “hooking up”, you have to ratchet it up a bit to actually do something to feel naughty.