No, it’s not. It’s like saying that if you think your secretions are too gross to be in your mouth, why should I want them in mine? It has nothing to do with “equality”, it’s about grownup attitudes towards bodies, both our own and our partners’.
Hey, I’m all about everyone negotiating these things with the people they actually have sex with, to all partners’ satisfaction. You don’t like something, you don’t like it, and if that’s okay with each of you, fantastic. But for me personally, if a guy wouldn’t kiss me after I swallowed (it’s not like I’m still rolling it around in there, you know), I wouldn’t be having sex with him again. It’d just feel a little too much like he doesn’t especially like *either *of us.
Never said otherwise but may have missed the point of the argument. I would never ask someone to do that because it’s nasty. if they surprise licked me than I would be too squicked out about it to kiss them. I mean I’d know where their mouth had been. >.<
Well it’s more like saying the woman ought to be able to kiss him. Which I agree. It could also be an argument that a man should be willing to perform oral on her if she goes down on him.
No, you’re not. Rimming rules. And I’m more than happy to be both a “bottom” (tee hee!) and a “top.” Getting a rusty trombone is an awesome experience.
But dwelling on the germ factor totally kills the mood. That’s why I don’t think about it.
Here’s something I learned from a Greek guy. The cure for dry mouth is not to magically squeeze out more saliva, or to take a sip of water. What really works is a little sip of olive oil, swished around the mouth. I even keep an olive oil dispenser within reach.
Also great for massages . . . or I suppose, sex play involving salads.
My partner does several different locations, including feet and ass, before oral. Neither of us has had a health problem yet. (I think the health risk is minimized by monogamy.)
Yeah, but just because it’s sterile doesn’t mean I want it in MY mouth. It’s personal preference.
Probably because the salty taste reminds me of CoLyte. If you ever had a colonoscopy, it’s the crap you have to drink the night before to clean your shit out (litterally). It’s salty taste is by far the worst part of having a telescope shoved up your ass. Your initial reaction is to try to vomit it up (which means you have to take it all over again). And then of course, you have to wait while it does its job. So yeah, the taste of my own semen reminds me of drinking something that makes me throw up, shit for 6 hours and then get a tube shoved up my ass. In fact, I almost threw up in the theater watching the scene in Jackass 2 where Steve-O and Johnny Knoxville drink a glass of horse semen.
Besides, I’m pretty sure MY shit doesn’t carry bacteria (since it doesn’t stink).
Thanks for your thoughts but it was a long time ago that my wife passed on, the pain has dulled over the years.
As for finding another woman, I’m 67, almost 68, if I should be lucky enough to find someone else (and I haven’t even been looking) I’m afraid BJs are but a dim and distant memory.
I’ll second this post, especially the bolded part. Rim play isn’t something we do often but is something we both really enjoy. We’ve been engaging in it for years and have yet to suffer any negative health effects.
Actually, I always wanted to start a thread in here about deep throat. Basically how many women Dopers can do it? Like to do it? Maybe it should be a poll! (Or pole???)
