Great, now I’m depressed because I want to watch the film again and don’t have it in my library. 
Ah well.
And jarbaby makes out with girls to turn on her husband. I’m fine with that. Just wondering if it’s a mixed message?
[[Dammit, the porn cliche is incomplete! Whatever happened to “I’ll do anything to keep this a secret, officer”? Doesn’t anybody watch the classics anymore?]]
Hah, that was pretty good.
I agree with you. A person who feels that if two women or two men fool around, it is somehow is less serious or less significant than if a woman and a man fool around, sounds a little offensive to me.
Cheating is cheating. Period.
Gawd, I’m closed-minded.
And have pillow fights! How could you forget those!
Well take it from half of an experienced married couple - who swing with girls and couples. She is cheating if her fiancee doesn’t either know or approve. Sure we see other people, but only together, never ever ever alone. Certainly we might seem to have a weird morality, but it can be great fun - but neither of us would consider doing anything like this alone - that is cheating.
Why do you think we go to the bathroom in pairs? 
Cheating can only be defined by the other person of a couple. If my wife does something that I do or don’t consider to be cheating, no other person’s opinion or definition of the term is relevant. The fact that she has such a cavalier attitude though, not caring what he thinks and assuming, even at this point, that the marriage will not last, is pretty scary. If he isn’t aware of her feelings, he should be informed, but it seems that the person getting screwed in a relationship always has blinders on and will not do what you hope that they will to get out of it. All you can do is be a friend when you can and hope for the best.
I also agree with Robyn. Might be a good idea to put some distance between yawl. She seems to be the type that really doesn’t care about how you feel about advances, and in fact enjoys the idea of the shock value. I have a friend who is married to a girl similar to her. She generally stays away from the known bi girls, preferring to proposition straight women even during work parties (including our bosses wife at the time). She will also only do this in front of others rather than privately. As a result, he has a couple of letters of reprimand for her conduct and I had even received verbals for not stepping in to help prevent this (just one of the hundred or so reasons I left the government). Basically he’s miserable, knows that the best thing for himself would be to get rid of her, but admittedly never will. It’s hard to watch. He’s still a dear friend of ours who visits whenever he’s around but they both know that she is not welcome in our home because of what she puts him through.
Beat of luck to ya, and hopefully you’ll be able to make the best of it.
And here I thought you gals when potty together for conversation in the long lines. NOW I know why the women’s restrooms all have loveseats in them!
Well, I’ve kissed two girls in my 28 year old lifetime. I did it because my husband said “wouldn’t be hot if you two made out?” and as a joke, we kissed. And that’s the furthest my adulterous career has advanced. In my opinion it’s a tad different than fingerfucking in the backseat of a Ford Tempo while your husband sits at home.
If I’m sending a mixed message, then I’m sorry.
jarbaby
I just can’t resist the urge here. I’m going to be snooty and namedrop.
I’ve shot jobs with both of these women, and so have spent the day a few feet away from them. Ms. Garofalo is rough and tumble in a kind of brilliant darkly sensual tomboy kind of way that either makes you wish you were her personal doormat-horndog-boytoy, or makes you wish she was your big sister cause she’s so cool and emanates power.
Ms. Margolies is painfully stunning. It was one of the few days when I was so distracted by the presence of the talent on set that I blew a shot as a result. ( Duh, Toon, nice job… ). She simply " does it " for me. Her smile is irridescent, her hair is to fucking DIE for, she’s witty and easy to work with. Her skin literally glows, BEFORE she goes into make-up for the day. And, she’s sexy as hell.
Now, you wanna talk about fantasy women, I’ve worked a few times with Anne Meara. 
As for the O.P. ( now and then, whilst partaking in a severe hijacking, I do feel the urge to address the O.P. in a thoughtful and direct way. Don’t worry, I won’t make a habit of it or anything… ). It’s cheating. Period. This isn’t the 15 year old sorta kinda working out one’s sexuality and enjoying everywhere it takes you- this is an adult who is engaged, fooling around with another adult. She’s made a committment, and has decided to deride it and do someone else on the side. Fine and great IF that’s all out in the open. Otherwise, she should feel like she’s cheating.
Not to be a total burn-in-hell-for-all-paternity hypocrite here, but this comes from an adulterer, ok? I face up to what I’ve done. She should have the balls ( s.i.c. ) to admit that she cheated. The " it doesn’t count cause it’s a girl/girl event" smacks of insult. Especially to lesbians. I mean, what would Laura do if I told her that her marriage to her partner Barbara Ann had no real intimate component, because girl/girl sex doesn’t count? Exqueeze me? Bullshit to the Nth. IMHO.
Originally Posted by jarbabyj
You never said before that it was a Ford. That puts this entire situation in a different light.
Cartooniverse
well what I like to do is… oh… oops… I thought this was “Fun with Girl parts”… my bad
What she is presenting is not a poly relationship, but rather a pending train wreck.