Wow, I’ve been away from the website a long time if this sort of shit is now acceptable to say.
Why wouldn’t it be?
To me, it’s a depressingly common form of disrespect to women- reducing them to the level of objects in which their only value is their appearance.
Appearance isn’t women’s only value, but it is mostly what guys, if they are being honest, care about. They generally settle for less attractive women only because they have to. I’m not saying it’s right, just reality.
Oh I see. You’re just an arse.
Just being honest. You think I’m wrong? The OP noted the girl he is living with is good looking, you think he is attracted to the depth of her soul or something?
FWIW women’s rating system of men is just about as shallow. Though not particularly scientific I think this is a pretty good pie graph for both sexes:
You two actually sound perfect for each other.
What you need to do, is to threaten to move out, unless she’s starts banging you. This way she gets to cheat on dude with preggo girlfriend, which should be a plus for her, and you get to hate bang your crush.
Everyone wins!!!
Maybe young/immature guys, like me 10 years ago… but it only took one bad relationship for me to learn how unimportant looks really are.
This link is filled with misogyny. It makes me feel sad because when I was in college and experiencing bouts of romantic loneliness I had a lot of the same feelings, as I imagine many young guys do. Most get past it, hopefully. I did, and I’m much happier for it.
I’ll modify this to say that obviously relationships will not be successful without some element of physical attraction and chemistry on both sides- but most mature adults realize that looks are just a small factor in this.
That’s just what someone who has “settled” says. But it does illustrate a problem in america where so many women are obese. Sometimes you have to accept some bitchiness to get an attractive one, where in say France, where pretty much everyone is fit, there is a lot more variety in personality. Still there are plenty of attractive girls with good personalities too, provided you aren’t forced by circumstances to settle. In my experience the better looking ones often have better personalities anyway. If I’m not mistaken higher intelligence at least is associated with attractiveness and inversely associated with obesity. Which IMO is totally unfair. I blame God.
Small factor? For men? Oh come on.
Wow, there is so much fail here… including a personal attack on my wife (who is super-beautiful and amazing in every way). Virtually every sentence contains a falsehood.
It admits how shallow men are too, and it’s pretty funny. Most women I have showe it to laugh and admit it’s true.
In my case I just learned the reality, modified my behavior based on that knowledge and had an easier time attracting better looking women, even as I got older. I’m much happier for it too.
I hope you treat women with a lot more kindness and respect than you show on this board.
Great, but it seems you are changing your story a bit. So you went from a bad relationship with an attractive woman to a good relationship with an “super-beautiful” woman? Good for you. You are attracted to “super-beautiful” women, which proves my initial point.
I don’t think I have said anything that is unkind or disrespectful. I’m just saying the truth that most people are too PC to say.
I never changed my “story” (which was pretty much just a single sentence). That bad relationship was years before I met my wife. I have been in relationships with women were considered beautiful and women who were not considered beautiful, and their physical appearance had pretty much zero correlation with how happy the relationship was (and how happy I was).
Using the term “fatty” is not exactly a brave truth.
If only I believed you. Anyway it seems you married a pretty one, or at least say that.