Well shit, that’ll teach me not to post when I’m running out the door.
Obviously that second bit should read:
“What you must do in this situation - not “should”, but must - is to delete her number right away.”
OK, so now that that’s clear: OP, you have deleted her number right? You’ve understood that that’s the only way to go?
He’s right though. I’ve told YOU GUYS how creepy i am.
Not her.
Here’s my conversation with her over the past few days.–
girl online on dating site - hey you should totally text me! (gives me number)
me texting her- hey what’s up? it’s gabe.
her- hey there c: (sounds hardcore interested. cute smiley face. very friendly greeting “hey there”)
me- what’re you up to?
her- coloring at school. lol. i have no clients so i am filling in my time. : P what are you up to?
her- sends picture of artwork
me- looks good! just got back from a jog
me- listening to some music. might go to the store later to get some stuff to cleanup m ycar.
her - (coming on strong) where at in ____county do you live? 
( being direct. really wants to see me. using tongue face)
me- I live in _____part wbu?
her- i live off ______ i’d love (she’d LOVE to see me) to meet and chat, get to know you some C: (smiley face again. she REALLY is asking to see me)
me-sounds great!
where you thinking of meeting?
her.- hm. good question. any ideas?
We discuss areas we live by. I ask her if she drives and she does. Ask he what she drives. Tell her what i drive.
I asked her if she drinks and she listed drinks she does. She describes herself. Likes art, makeup, etc.
We talk about movies. She gets really into it.Tells me she likes horror movies. I list ones i’ve watched She seems really interested.
I asked her to send a pic and she did. Next day i message her and she seems really interested again. She makes an excuse for not talking to me. I made a comment about it. I asked her if she was closing (this was yesterday) she said she was. I said she should see me when she gets off work. Way later that day i say “hey” no response. It’s been almost two days and no reply.
This was not edited. This is our conversation. There were no arguments and i just shortened some parts for you all.
What happened…?
You are over analyzing EVERYTHING.
What happened: she’s just passing the time and you’re reading “hey there c:” as “hardcore interested.”
You haven’t met or spoken with her, right? And yet you write as though she’s made some kind of commitment that she’s reneging on.
I knew social media would destroy human relationships.
Am i really? Second sentence in she’s nagging at me to see her and where i specifically live at.
That doesn’t sound interested to you?
Get real.
That’s the exact conversation. You’re saying she showed NO interest in that conversation?
Not “hardcore interested” but “interested for sure” why wouldn’t she be from that tone? I’m not looking at things that AREN’T there but what IS there.
“Nagging at you to see her”? You say you’ve transcribed the exact conversation and nowhere in it do I see her “nagging” you about anything.
Is this a parody thread?
Seriously, is it?
We can only hope.
Wow…You are seriously unhinged.
She was flirting. It literally means nothing. Get over yourself.
So, as crazy as this sounds, she told me where she worked. Maybe she thinks im some weird unattractive creep and that’s why she stopped talking to me?
Can’t i casually go in there and if she’s there act like i don’t even recognize her and then get her number or ask her out then? I have a LOTTTTTT more success in person then i do online for some reason.
It sounds creepy here, but i could play it off really casually and act like i don’t even know her and ask for her number.
edit: I mean what should i do? She hasn’t said anything in a couple days. If i message her again and she doesn’t respond, i’m screwed. But if i show up there casually and act like i don’t know her and get her number maybe i can leave a good impression then.
She’s updated her dating profile so i know she is actually ignoring me, btw. Despite the messages not showing me doing anything wrong. What happened…??? She’s looking for someone else and dropped me for the reason being…no reason…?
Second text message she’s asking where i live and to see me later that night.
Are you guys trolling me?
…We aren’t the ones selling you a bridge…
Asking once is not “nagging”. She’s probably bored because you never actually ask to meet her anywhere. You sound awfully wishy-washy.
Where do you want to meet?
I dunno, where do you want to meet?
I dunno, where do you…
Just ask the damn girl to meet you at place X and time T. Quit yer bitchin’.
What should you do? Move on, then stop asking for advice you’re going to ignore anyway.
But first, send her a dick pic.
but first, let me take a selfie.
Here’s what happened. You bored her. You gave her nothing really of interest to engage with, and you failed to close. So she’s probably moved on. I listened to this podcast featuring Aziz Ansari’s Guide To Dating By Text - this is a summary from The Guardian which would worth your time to read - he specifically lists bad texts:
Next time? As most people in this thread have said, a firm invitation to something specific at a specific time.
Where in the conversation did she say (or ask) she wanted to see you later that night? What I got from your “transcription” is that you interpreted her general conversation that way but she never actually said it.
alright, well, since i really like her. I still wanna give it one last shot. I don’t care if it looks creepy, or won’t work at all and it’s too late. I’d like a good last attempt. It’s clear she’s decided “boring” and won’t be texting me back.
Someone earlier in the thread said to say something like “say you’re going to X and X is something she really likes. Give her a specific time.”
What should i specifically say i’m going to? I know she likes art and makeup, and horror movies. I just asked her if she has seen sinister 2. If she replies i’m gunna turn it into a date. Or try. If she has an excuse i’m gunna try to plan a date and time. It’s a good last attempt.