Vinnies on to something there with that #3 suggestion…
Oh golly, you’re so right. He even liked it when I wore it doing housework.
Ahunter, Jsexton - you’re both totally on the mark. I’m not the naked-dessert type of person, to be honest. I’d like to be, but I’m a silly person by nature. Maybe that’s why I have trouble with this - attempting to be “sexy” the way other women are ends in giggles for me.
I’ve always wanted to be one, though. I just don’t think I have it in me. (do what you will with that sentence.)
I wish. My boyfriend is theoretically into it, but he uses the Seinfeld line…“I’d have to get all new orgy clothes, and all new orgy friends…”
Actually, I take that back. I’d be into it if he were only to watch. That’s not really fair, though, is it?
Wow, these are some good ideas.
I really liked the blind folded on the chair idea…
I do have to agree with taking advantage of the morning wood though. My SO is always up for it in the morning.
And I must admit I liked picturing you that way 
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Wow… those are some great ideas. I wish someone would email those to my wife. But seriously, what do you do when the shoe’s on the other foot (wife doesn’t want any… once a week if I’m lucky). It’s not that she’s pregnant either, it’s been like this since we got married.
She was so scared of getting pregnant (she’s a school teacher) before we were married that we stopped having sex shortly after I moved to Texas. It hasn’t picked back up.
What’s worse is now she teases me, thinking “a little bit is better than nothing”.
Right now I figure once a week and I’m doing good. The truth is it’s more like twice a month.
Maybe it’s true… wedding cake does decrease a woman’s sex drive by 70%.
Gundy:
I’ve been living with my boyfriend for a few months and we’ve been dating for over 2 years-so similar situation.
I’m familiar with the old “well, its already 11 pm, he’s gotta get up at 5 am, we’ll just wait until tomorrow.”
Which becomes the next day and the next…
1)Quickest way? 2 words. Thigh highs. you can get them anywhere these days. Experiment with colors, backseams,
fishnets etc.
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The eyes have it. All you’ve gotta do is give him that
sidelong glance. Or-wait-this ALWAYS works: Just gaze
at him when he’s not looking at you, while he’s watching TV or doing whatever. Blatantly
check him out. He’ll feel your eyes and get the hint. -
Penis sucking=good. Cant go wrong with that either.
Like you, I’m totally goofy, so some of the time
I just sit on our bed and start this silly whining for him to “Bring me the penis, I WANT the penis, etc.”
Makes him laugh, but he always brings the penis right over! -
Just start gently rubbing or kissing whatever area
of him is nearest to you. Explore. Repeat until desired
outcome achieved. -
And finally, one of my no-cost, no-effort tricks, make
him an internet file. Sift thru some porn sites and look
for pics that he personally is into. Lesbian action pretty much always scores! Save the best pics onto a file with his
name, and ask him to go look thru it and keep/delete whatever he wishes. Its kinda funny looking thru them together. Some pics I would have thought were winners were NOT, and vice versa.
Anyway, add pics periodically, and whenever you want some
action, send him to the computer for 5 minutes and you’re
set. What could be easier?!