I don’t think she’s given you enough info yet to ask her out. I’d wait until she hired a pilot to fly a plane overhead as class is ending with a banner that reads: Will you fucking ask me out already!!!
OP hasn’t returned folks-think any further blather will be wasted (or the OP itself was a massive whoosh)…
Haven’t read the OP.
Would the advice “go ask her out and see.” be applicable?
This would be my chief worry, also. Whether it would override my desire to ask her out would be inversely related to how hot the girl is, though because of the truth of post #8.
Ask her out.
I’d found that I was often mostly oblivious to women doing those sorts of things and, more often than not, if I was wondering if she was interested or not, she generally was. It was very rare cases with complicating factors that that rule of thumb broke down, like we met in another way, like she was a waitress who seemed to be paying extra special attention to me, or one or both of us was in a relationship when we met or whatever.
But here’s the thing that really helped me out. If you don’t ask, you’ll never know and nothing will change. If you do ask, worst case she says no, still nothing has changed but you at least know; best case she says yes. So even the worst case is no worse and, in my opinion because at least you know, actually better than the best case of not asking.
My advice would be, next time you see her, strike her up in the same sort of casual conversation, then mention that you’d like to continue it over coffee or lunch or whatever. Even if she is just being friendly, it’s an opportunity to actually establish a friendship, assuming you’re interested in that, and if she declines, it doesn’t leave you two feeling that awkward. I would suggest doing it sooner rather than later. If she is interested and she puts herself out there a few times without much response, she’ll likely assume you’re either much too shy or just not interested.
Be sure to waggle your eyebrows suggestively when you say “whatever.”
YES ask her, just because she goes to religious events doesn’t mean she is. Find out on your date and have a good time
Nah, I’m still here.
I haven’t seen her since last week, but as long as she shows up to class I should get to see her tomorrow. I’ll probably ask her out then.
In the meantime, any more thoughts are appreciated.
Stop right there. Ask her out.
I am 100% sure she is interested. It’s kind of obvious.
You snooze, you lose. She and I are going out Wednesday night. I’ll let you know how it went!
The question isn’t is she interested in you, are you interested in her?
People come on the board with a lot of these “what do you think?” things about dating. We have *absolutely no way * of knowing. Zero. None. Zilch. All we have is what you are telling us and that’s being filtered through the clues you do or don’t pick up on.
What ends up happening is that guys put wayyyyyy too much pressure on the idea of asking a girl so it becomes bigger in your mind. She’s one girl that you really don’t even know so if she say yes, that’s great. If she says no, it’s really no big deal as you don’t know anything about her. Waiting and worrying and asking here keeps putting it more and more on the “BIG DEAL” burner.
Just ask.
Sheilds are down, load torpedo bays and FIRE!!!
If you have to come here to figure it out, I would say youre a lost cause
Sounds like she digs you, OP. Go for it!
And then come back here and report 
“…lost cause”
That is kind of rude, some times people like to get input from others- outside the situation.
I was thinking the same thing.
I thought it was pretty clear that she likes you until you said… she is religious. Then I started to see the whole thing from a new angle. Sure, many people are religious, but the way you said it makes me think that she is VERY religious. Or at least it is some defining characteristic about her.
I thought it was interesting that she asks about your tattoos etc. Either she really did target you as a potential person that needs Jesus in his life or she is attracted to the “dark side”, because she is always the good girl.
But then again, it is also entirely possible that she just likes you and the religion part is not important in this. Hard to tell without seeing her interact etc.
I would just try to ask her out. What is the worst thing that could happen? What is the best thing that could happen?
good luck!
Let me put it this way: there is never a good reason to not ask a single girl out on a date.
Reflecting on my youth, there were probably more girls than I realize who were interested in me, or at the very least amicable to the idea of a date. I was either too clueless or too scared (or both).
I asked her out…
And she said “yes!” I got her number so I’ll be calling her tomorrow to set up a date ASAP.
Will update as events ensue…
Hooray! [
nudge nudge say no more! :D]