Yes, yes, I get the point- use a condom. Yep, never denied it, not trying to say it is good not to.
Sorry, I’d like to take one more whack at my hijack.
The “S word” just happens to be a pet peeve of mine. As **Parental Advisory ** said, there is no corresponding derogatory term meaning “male slut”. It’s as if a white person called a black person a nigger, then turned around and said, “What? You can call me a honky!”
PetW, I hope you aren’t taking this as a personal attack. It’s funny, I don’t usually consider myself a raging feminist. Maybe I was just on the rag Friday. 
I’ve never had the two-finger check. Thank God. Fingers up one orifice in a non-amorous situation are bad enough, let alone two.
My worst experience, AngelicGemma, has been (really, I swear to Og) only mild twinges when they put the speculum in and open it. It’s really not that bad. I think the indignity of it bothers me more than anything else. I didn’t go until I was 25, having been told by a doctor I could wait until I was sexually active (or contemplating becoming so) unless I was having problems.
I’m sure it has been said by countless guys: I am glad I am not a female!
The worst we have to put up with is a tube in the ol pee hole.