I think the reason I suck at flirting is because I suck at talking to girls at a platonic level. Once I can get comfortable with that and start having flowing conversations with girls just as friends, flirting will come a lot easier.
Now, as for the whole “asking her about herself” issue. I am still unclear on that. It’s kind of confusing because every time I went to go get advice they would always tell me to ask her questions and about herself. Just look in my last thread - the second response:
Even in this thread, if you look on the first page.
However, you people are also right in that the problem is that it starts becoming an interview which even I don’t like. I want (and she probably does too) to have a nice fun conversation.
But then I don’t know what else to do or say…