Mighty_Boy and I broke up a few months ago. We live now many thousand miles from each other. A couple of months ago we started emailing each other again and we are now having XXX-rated “conversations” over emails. I know that he is not with another woman, he’s not even interested in another woman, and I want him to ask me to go back with him.
Whassup with him? Why can’t he just ask me? Can men have a long relationship over emails? All I want is sex, regular, run of the mill sex, email is not substitute for that.
Yeah, you’re right. But I am having trouble with the make-him-pack-his-stuff-grab-a-plane-and-get-in-my-room part of it. Right after that it is fairly easy.
And anyway, since he remanis several thousand miles away, what makes you think he wouldn’t be interested IF only he were in the immediate vicinity?
Ya wanna find out? YOUR move. Good Luck. How does that go… “The worst thing that can happen is he could say ‘no’ and want to just still be friends” ?
[sub]Bad, BAD JRDelirious, you should NOT derive pleasure from saying that to a woman…[/sub]
Is it possible he is not interested in anything more than dirty e-talk?? Or that he thinks maybe you may not want him back for anything more than sex?? What was the reason ya’ll broke up? maybe he is not ready to go back down that road… maybe YOU should ask HIM. Seems to me you may have to be the one to speak up… but could be that maybe he just isn’t gonna go there. You said you were having a hard time getting him to pack his stuff and come to your room… why not go to him??
You’re right, I’ve hinted it about a thousand times/ways. I guess now it’s only a matter of using the S word and writing the questions in capital letters. I don’t know if he’s plain dumb or maybe he doesn’t want to hear the question.
IMHO, sex is not worth travelling thousand of miles for, but a relationship might be. If you just need him for sex then you’ll probably be doing the both of you a great disservice by luring him all that way for steamy boot knockin’ sessions. You could both find someone new in your own neighborhoods.
But I am a guy, and you know how we always think with our…
See, I used to think that way, so I understand how you feel. The thing is, dear, pride never kept me warm at night. Sometimes your gain is proportionate your risk. Would you rather know he’s not interested and move on with your life, or, years from now, think “What if…?”
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve gone down in flames a few times myself, and it can be painful. But I’d rather know the answer than torture myself wondering. Good luck!
Seawitch
(who is a train wreck, a ton of bricks, and a flying mallet all at once)
Why can’t he just ask me? Can men have a long relationship over emails? All I want is sex, regular, run of the mill sex, email is not substitute for that.
