How many partners have you had?

1)1
2)Female
3)35

If we’re including hand jobs and oral sex…

  1. 10 (only 5 if it’s just intercourse)
  2. Male
  3. 24
  1. about 30 (coitus only. About 60 otherwise)
  2. male
  3. 31

Hand jobs and oral sex are sexual intercourse. So is coitus, which is probably what you mean. See above.

  1. 2 male, 9 female, 1 genderqueer.
  2. Og only knows… my current SO calls me a fag trapped in a dyke’s body.
  3. I recently turned 21.

damn, i forgot one. Add another female.
So, 2 male, 10 female, 1 genderqueer.

  1. 5 (although two of them were one time things)

  2. male

oh, and since everyone’s doing it…I’m 22 years old

  1. 2 or so (broad definition of “intercourse”); 0 (coitus).

  2. Male, 23.

  1. one person.
  2. male.
  3. 20 years old as of next week.

I’m not attracted to girls, not guys either. In swedish we call this “asexuell”, but I have no idea how to translate that word into english. That one person did it to me when I was almost completely passed out (yes, being drunk is a curse)… it was my friend that told me about my “sexual intercourse”. (I wonder if that would count as rape… probably not.

  1. One
  2. Male
  3. 26

40-50
Female
28

… but if you read the link in the OP, that’s the whole point of this survey–trying to establish a baseline of horn-doggedness!

Me:

  1. 7 ladies, all back in the 80’s (married the last one)
  2. Male
  3. 42
  1. Four. David Caruso, Jimmy Smits, Rick Schroeder, and that guy from Saved by the Bell.
  2. Male
  3. I’m a cop.
  1. around 20
  2. female
  3. 26

no one-night stands, I was very fond of all of them (at the time that we were together) - ‘fond’ being broadly defined, of course, there was only one that I was interested in marrying - and I did!

all encounters were “safe.”

Yes, I enjoyed the 90s.

Male (35) here. The vital statistics:

[list]* Including coitus: 1 (one).

  • More broadly defined: um, still 1 (one).

  • Made successful passes at: 1 (yes, the same one).

  • Made unsuccessful passes at: 0 (zero). My pass rate is 100%. Woohoo!

  • Imaginary partners: 35,147 (lots and lots)

Coding screwups: one more.

1] 66
2] female
3] 34

Um, yes. That is rape, very clearly so.

Wow. I feel like a total tramp now. I have to say, maybe it’s just a fast crowd I hang with, but I’m upwards of 10 partners and so are most of my friends, having been sexually active now for over a decade.

Maybe it’s just b/c none of us are married, so you do start to rack them up over the years. Not sure. I do envy people who found one person and stuck with it. Out of my seemingly-many partners, if I could go back, I’d winnow out all but 6, and even THAT seems like a lot…

Feeling abashed now…