How many sexual partners have you had?

Yes, yes it most certainly is. :slight_smile:

To go along with something mentioned earlier, I really don’t think the whole, gay guys are promiscius thing has anything to do with being gay. It has to do with being male.

Not always.
I’ve come to terms with my promiscuity. I’ve never been religious, so never really felt guilty in that way about it, but there is definitely still a double standard. If you’re a man that has a lot of sex, you’re a stud, but if you’re female, then you’re a bad girl. And you need a good spanking, heh. As I get older, it becomes more clear to me that as long as you’re responsible about it, and I am to a high degree, you’re not doing anything “wrong”.

OTOH, the older I get, the more I value an emotional connection. I don’t need it, but my dry spell could end tonight if I chose to go looking, and I’m just not horny enough to go find a total stranger. None of my male friends are sexually attractive to me, either.

But sex just feels so good I can hardly believe it. I can’t believe everybody’s not doing it all the time. Oh, wait, they are!

In my experience many women get as horny as most men do, and are equally as likely to make rash decisions when drunk. Less likely to trumpet success from the rooftops, mind.

In this survey, I’d guess that some of the woman are not counting some sexual encounters whereas almost all of the men are counting fingers and tops. Personally, I’ve counted everything that involved bra-removal, and am a wee bit ashamed that I don’t clearly remember some encounters and names.

Well if American Pie taught me anything (and I think that it did), you should adjust every guys stats by a factor of 1/3 and every womans stats by 3x

For example

  1. 28 (excluding girls I only got to second base with or less)
  2. 33
  3. male
  4. straight

by the way, prostitutes don’t count

  1. 1
  2. 17
  3. Female
  4. Straight

I’m not in a position to answer the bonus, but I can say that it wasn’t very good.

By what logic, exactly?

1)I’d say about 1000
2)37 years
3) Male
4) Gay

Hot damn, this thread makes me feel a little better. I work with some pretty slutty coworkers and I guess that very much skews my outlook on things.

1.) 2 Partners
2.) 23yo
3.) Male
4.) Straight

Almost worst: Friend. Sex was OK but she had a very much inflated opinion of her prowess between the sheets. Always claims she’s still interested but always seems to turn me down anymore. BJs were bad. Had to work like hell to get off so she wouldn’t be embarrased. Interestingly enough she asked me the other day if she was any good at them. Kinda wondered if maybe some guy had the balls to break her the news.

Worst: We jump into bed, make out, I get her off…she starts crying complaining about how she know’s she’ll feel like a slut if she goes any further, etc, etc. I’m not sure if this even counts.

I need a sex fiend. :frowning:

  1. 3 partners
  2. 28 Years old
  3. Male
  4. Straight

Worst - the second…had no clue what the hell was going on.

Best - my wife. Awesome!

Did you mean friend, or is that supposed to be fiend? Everyone has a little sex fiend in them, don’t you know?

  1. 6

  2. 50

  3. female

  4. straight

best-kitchen floor, lasted 10 minutes froms tart to finish.
worst-i was practically a virgin and way tight and he was way big. it hurt.

Why on Earth would they NOT count? If I were a woman, quizzing a guy about his sexual encounters, I’d definitely want to know about the hookers.

I’m one of those high numbers, by the way. My number was a guess, and I wouldn’t say I’m proud of it–far from it–as the vast majority of those came during some years of extremely self-destructive behavior. I have no idea of the names of 9/10 of the women I’ve slept with, and I don’t think that’s anywhere close to being worthy of plaudits.

Fiend. I meant what I typed. :wink:

1
39
Male
Straight

(Catholic too, since it seems like it matters to the OP. :wink: )

I’m waiting until someone as old as I am posts his/her numbers… :stuck_out_tongue:

How many: 1 (A 2 year relationship. I’ve had another relationship, but that didn’t go for very long or very far, so I’m only counting after 2nd base.)
Age: 20 (in a week)
Sex: Male
Orientation: Kind of bi, but I’ve only been with a girl.

Best: Well, as far as partners go; obviously my girlfriend, but there have been some awesome times… pretty much if she comes, I’m happy.

Worst: Um… 5am, after 3 weeks of no sex (it’s a long distance thing), in my dorm room (with my roommate asleep in the other bed), quietly, cramped, tired from getting back into town so late, I was too quick, she was just coming off her period so it was a bit bloody (not normally bad, but this time it made it worse for some reason)… and yeah. That would probably be worst.

1.) 2 for intercourse - both were long term partners; about 8 if you include oral and hand-job applications. I’ve certainly had opportunities for intercourse with more than two women but I’m cautions with prospect of pregnancy and STDs. I insist on multiple birth control methods: usually condom + BC pills.

2.) just turned 24
3.) Male
4.) Straight

Bonus: This is a close call since both were rather excellent, gorgeous teenage girls.

Best: Long term fling that began in the summer of 2003; she was a foxy, blonde, thin, sorta-goth, 17 y/o high school student while I was 20 years old and about to start my 3rd year of college in the fall. Most of our encouters involved me driving 50 miles out to her rural house, parking a quarter mile away, and crawling through her bedroom window to get in while he father was sleeping at the opposite end of the house. Her mother conveniently worked out of town all weekend every weekend. We were never bf-gf - just fuck buddies - which was her preference so obliged. We had sex nearly every time I saw her. She was a tiger in bed. The fling last for a year and a half until she moved away in Feb '05.

2nd Best: My ex-gf of 2.5 years which began in early summer 2000. I had just finished junior year in high school and she her sophomore year. She was a cute, soft-spoken, thin, brunette Catholic girl. We dated for 6 months before ending each others virginity together after a winter formal dance. This relationship was the strongest emotionally and romantically compared to the above fling, but lacked in endurance sexual enthusiasm by comparison. The long distance between us in college eventually contributed to our break-up in January '03.

  1. 2

  2. 19

  3. female

  4. Straight

Best? The current guy, who is all too willing to learn what I like. Worst? Last guy, who wanted it all the time and… well… didn’t exactly wait for me.

Intercourse: 5, Other Means of Getting The Semen Out of 1cS: 4 more
**Age: ** 32
Gender: Male
Orientation: currently straight

The worst for me would be my first girl. (My first sexual experiences were with other boys.) But the first girl, god that was awful. I didn’t know what the hell I was doing.

The best would be my ex-wife. She was a fucking firecracker.

How many…about 40 or so

How old…38

All man, yep I just checked

Straight as a die