How many sexual partners have you had?

How many?
Somewhere between 60 and 75

Age?
32

I am a straight female.

My fiance is the best I’ve ever had. I just love him so much and that makes it wonderful beyond words.

The worst, hmmm… I have had some really bad ones, but the worst has to be this gross guy I did it with in college. He had serious b.o. and we did it on a mattress in a basement. Ahh, the drunken years… :smiley:

Typo or no, this is funny. :stuck_out_tongue:

I’m straight, 46, female and pretty bad with my memory nowadays…especially as many of my sexual encounters were prior to my marriage which was a bloody long time ago. Just from recollection, I can count 24, but I’m sure a few have been so unremarkable that they’ve slipped under me’ radar.

The worst was actually one evening with another lady. Although I identify as straight, I’m not so die-cast as to exclude others just because of their body parts etc. I really picked the wrong chick to ‘come out’ with though. :stuck_out_tongue:

The best? Still probably my ex-husband, now long deceased but who was the best foreplay maestro ever.

5 partners
age 24
female
bi (leaning straight)

from my numbers, you really wouldn’t know that I freaking love sex… it’s just I’ve only been single for about 9 months cumulatively since I was 16. I’m good at being monogamous, I guess.

it’s hard to pinpoint a best; I’ve had amazing sex with all of my partners but one. I don’t think it’d be fair to say any of them were the absolute best.

the worst is easy, though: this guy I worked with who made it clear to me he wanted to date me almost as soon as we met. I thought he was kind of charming, but I was dating someone at the time, so I never gave it much thought. I remembered him when my relationship was on hiatus, called him up to hang out and see if any sparks flew… everything was fine until we got in bed. boy, did mr. happy get sad. this guy was obviously dying to fuck me, just raring to go, and about halfway through it became clear that that motherfucking soldier was suddenly NOT at attention. I felt sorry for him, as I’m sure that must be a frustrating problem to have, but yeah, needless to say, pretty fucking bad sex.

Number of partners: 55
My age: 66
Male
Straight

1.) 0. The boyfriend and I are waiting for marriage (or I guess a domestic partnership if marriage doesn’t get legalized in California in the next few years).
2.) 22.
3.) Male.
4.) Gay (so I guess I’m the exception that proves the rule or something)

  1. ~150
    2)35
  2. Male
  3. Straight

The best was my best friends sister, though there was hell to pay afterwards. I was 17 and she was 24 and all she said to me for about three days straight was ‘Let’s try this!’. I learned more in those three days…

The worst…hmmm, most were pretty good though a handful really sucked. I can’ really pick a worst.

Slee

Interesting topic.

  1. somewhere on the order of 30, but I honestly don’t know for sure
  2. 33
  3. female
  4. straight

Best? Definitely my recently ex-husband that I’m currently dating. It’s an odd situation and I know it, but it’s working for us.

Worst? My best male friend from high school admitted to me in college that he’d been in love with me for years. We dated a couple of times and then ended up in bed together. I never knew that a guy could be a “dead lay” - he literally did not move, and I did all the work. I don’t know if he was paralyzed with fear or didn’t know what to do, or what, but it did not end well.

Me too!! I’m no longer Catholic but I can’t do sex outside of a long term relationship. I used to think I’d always be a virgin until I married and I only had sex with my partner because we were going to be married. Unfortunately, I have quite a high sex drive.

  1. 1
  2. 24
  3. female
  4. bi

I’m looking at some of your numbers and giving myself a pep talk. “Come on, you can do it, 2 isn’t a big number at all!”

  1. 150-200
  2. 34
  3. male
  4. straight

Getting laid was pretty much my lifegoal throughout the 90s, and I was making ~$6k a week from my porn sites by '99, which afforded a lifestyle, uh, more rich in opportunities. I never did a pornstar though. Only 3 were hookers, and they were all call girls to my hotel room on one trip to Montreal. French chicks are sexy.

I met my wife in '99, had a few more rendezvous before we started dating, and then a few threesomes, but since maybe 2002 I’ve been monogomous.

The best was absolutely with my wife in Jamaica. My friend (the piano player at Hedonism II), took us on a tour and to his house on his day off, then scored some “roots tea” which is some sort of herbal viagra or spanish fly. After sex my erection would remain intact, and I could go another round. Combine that with the awesome ganja we scored and it made for interesting 5 hours or so.

The worst, probably when I barely got the head in, and came.

These are cons?

Well, presumably a guys “number” is a measure of his studliness. His ability to pick up women. So going to a prostitute is effectively cheating to inflate your stats.

I obviously can’t speak for FormerMarineGuy and other high numbers, but I don’t consider a high number “studliness.” I’m not a stud, but I’ve had sex with a lot of women because I was very self-destructive and filled with self-loathing; sex was useful because it both helped alleviate the bad feelings for a little while (even though I almost always felt worse after I’d fucked a stranger) and because it validated my hatred of myself.

11
31
Female
Straight

Best: My only Master. Despite the fact that his willy was slightly smaller than average, his oral skills and the whole “mind fuck” experience of being dominated made up for that. He was the only guy who gave me an orgasm with oral, and the first time he did I sincerely thanked him for it.

Worst: A guy back in high school. He had no idea what he was doing, but acted like he was a stud. You know how babies rock back & forth on their hands and knees before they start crawling? That’s how this guy did the deed. Pretty pathetic. Plus he had a small dick.

Now that I think about it, I’ve done a whole lot of faking through the years. Sad, really.

  1. 39 partners (breakdown: 11 women, 28 men)
  2. 23 years old
  3. Female
  4. Eh, dunno

Best was one of the few that I’ve slept with more than a couple of times (had time to get to know me, I guess!). Worst was this young woman who bit me… very hard… repeatedly… in a place where I really, really didn’t want to be bitten. If you know what I mean.

Holy shit.

Curious, but 100, and nobody new in the last twelve years. Does this mean 100 sexual partners by time you hit 21 years old?

I do agree with you, I regret a lot of past, especially the fact that I started so damn young. BUT, I do love sex, so I regret nothing. (If any of that makes sense).

1) How many sexual partners have you had in your life?
1 :frowning:
2) How old are you?
42
3) Are you male or female?
Male
4) Are you gay or straight?
Straight

Bonus does not apply…

omg

Clockwork and Candy:

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