This is for anyone who has a sexual relationship with a man- women, gay men, sheep with opposable thumbs, whomever. How much enjoyment do you get from the ability of your man to ejaculate? I’m talking ejaculation specifically, not just orgasm. Two different things.
Here’s the deal- I’ve recently started taking some meds to correct one problem (BPH) which are causing another problem- the inability to ejaculate when I have an orgasm. Aside from coming as something of a surprise the first time we put it to the test, frankly the sensation was somewhat unpleasant. I guess I never realized how much pleasure I got from the ejaculation itself, and now that it’s gone, the enjoyment of the orgasm is significantly reduced.
My wife sympathizes with my predicament but is somewhat ambivalent about the lack of ejaculate. Although she doesn’t love the taste of come, she takes (or used to take) great pleasure in having me come in her mouth because she knows how much I love doing so, as well as watching her swallow, etc. As for intercourse, she’s not entirely disappointed that there’s no real clean-up involved afterward, at least not like there used to be. So overall, she feels bad for me because of the lack of sensation I’m feeling, but she’s largely unaffected by this new turn of events.
However, I’ve had girlfriends who absolutely loved come- either loved the taste of it and the act of swallowing it, or really got off on having me spray it on various parts of their bodies. One former GF used to come over to my apartment where I’d cook her dinner and before we sat down to eat, she’d jack me off over her plate so she could use it as dipping sauce.
So I ask ya- to the extent that it affected your own actual pleasure, not just a sympathy for what he’s going through, how disappointed would you be if your man could no longer ejaculate?
Yeah, I was reading through the OP and sort of mentally composing the reply I was going to make and then suddenly, oh HELL no. HELL NO. Now I can’t remember what I was going to originally say.
I concur. Not that I spit it out or anyhting - that’d just be rude- but why would it be considered any less messy, objectionable than an other bodily fluid?
I’ve been told that certain types of foods impart their taste into ejaculate so make sure that you eat lots of ginger and garlic, if the dipping sauce is to be used with Chinese food. Cream of sum yung gai, indeed.
I don’t particularly care for it. I would love to not have to get up right after sex and clean up, particularly if I am half asleep and cuddling. But I know if I don’t I am going to wake up in the middle of the night feeling, well squishy and gross.
I am also a little squimish when it comes to bodily fluids so cum does not go on my body or in my mouth.
