I enjoy a man’s ejaculation, personally. It’s a HUGE turn on for me, either while giving oral (whether I swallow or not, but I usually do) or during intercourse (I can usually feel it…ETA, referring to my late husband here, with whom I had unprotected sex…that feeling is not something I would sacrifice safety for in a less than fully committed relationship in which both have a clean bill of sexual health, of course.).
All that said, it’s not the ejaculate ITSELF I love so much and would be completely icked out by the stuff in any other context, Ewwww.
But it would certainly not be a deal-breaker or even that big of a deal if a partner I cared for/loved/had great sex with didn’t spurt as he spasmed. I’d get over it, probably wouldn’t give it much thought at all.
This is very interesting because of the manifold effects ejaculate has in the body chemistry of both participants. It’s packed full of heady goodness, literally. I would think both partners would miss it. It has a lot of mental triggers associated with it as well. The more neuroscientists study it and its impact on mental and emotional states they more they realize it does. Some deep implications for the path human evolution has taken have arisen out of the study of seminal fluid.
Even removing the fact it was ejaculate, it’s still nasty. If you had said that she asked you to, say, spit (yknow, something everyone has in their mouth, constantly) a lot onto her plate so she could use it as dipping sauce, I’d feel like horking, too.
Really? Because part of what I like about it is the relief of pressure that’s built up. If I didn’t ejaculate, wouldn’t the pressure still be in there, and, post orgasm, not feel so good? Wouldn’t it be similar to needing to pee?
I’m sorry for you that ejaculation has stopped, it’s an important part of the orgasm. I believe the contraction of muscles and movement in the whole prostate-to-urinary tract thing is a big part of your orgasmic sensation. Partly the same with girls, not only are muscle contraction triggered during orgasm, but the muscle contractions themselves are part of the sensation.
I’ve had a few GFs who claim that the ejaculate coming inside them is extremely erotic and can bring them to orgasm, probably because it’s hot or has some other properties that stimulate neurons.
I think the important thing here is that you’re missing out on orgasms, I believe your wife is completely honest in her view on ejaculate. Let’s not understate man’s sexuality here, sex can be a pretty disappointing thing for a man if there is little pleasure involved.
I hope you eventually can quit the medicines or find better ones, I believe your wife’s sympathy with you is emotionally stronger to her than any lack of cum
If you are serious about your overall question, no I don’t think most chicks really dig semen. I’ve had girls say they like my, er, fluids, in one place or another but I’m pretty sure they said that because they thought it sounded hot and that it was something they thought I’d like to hear. We’ve quite a few sexually open women and gay men on the dope, and seeing as none of them have posted “GODDAMN! I FUCKING LOVE SEMEN!” I’d say that very few people have cravings for literally just semen, and not the sex and the orgasm and the pleasing of one’s partner that come with the semen. I don’t think you need to be worried that your woman is going to leave for a guy with copious amounts of jizz.
Oh and for future use, when referring to semen, the preferred spelling is “cum” not “come.”
