Good job on “taking” that virginity, champ.
So now that you’re finished with the daughter, do you think you will be able to score with her mom?
Yeah, I’m having trouble parsing what the mom said to mean anything about her mental state.
Creepy, dude.
Hey! I’ve got a new sig out of this thread!
“Just do what Northern Piper advises. He’s wise.” - Muffin.
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Yeah, but if you average them out it’s a normal healthy relationship with a 31 year old.
Even if she wasn’t young or “developmentally delayed” this girl is bad news. She was smart enough to lie to you about her age. She was smart enough to sneak around and have a sexual relationship. She’s just not mature enough to appreciate the potential consequences. I’d hazard a guess that this isn’t the first time she’s put herself in harm’s way. I pity her mother. She has her job cut out trying to keep her child from winding up pregnant, with AIDS or dead because she went off with the wrong man.
**Your father is a wise man. Listen to him. ** 
ANY time that a relationship has to be hidden, there is something tainted about it. You deserve better than that.
Learn from this experience and consider yourself lucky for dodging a bullet.
Best wishes.
And yo’ mom. And Granny, too. While yer at it, don’t tell him where Great-Granny’s buried… Just to be safe.
What is the girl’s chronological age?
And how do you know?
Yes, because it’s his fault that she lied to him about her age.
Seriously, what is it about social threads that cause people to completely lose their ability to use their brain? How does it even make sense to make fun of someone for something they have no control over? Do you somehow think that making fun of him will prevent other people from lying to him?
People make fun of me for how I think about social situations, but all I do is apply the same logic I would in other situations, rather than disengage my brain and accept the social mores and practices as being good because they are familiar. I deconstruct everything and put it back together in a rational manner.
And this bullying is just irrational bullshit.
Big T, it is his responsibility as an adult to look before he leaps, particularly when it comes to popping the cherry of a youth. Her being developmentally delayed makes it all the more important for him to take care.
Instead of acting responsibily, he puts his pecked in anything that will let him.
A man with sexual experience takes the virginity of a younger, inexperienced girl after just two weeks while knowing her mother disapproved and knowing he would soon leave the country. His actions were foolish, selfish, and irresponsible. He probably started the thread to brag about his sexual prowess, which became hilarious and kind of sad and shameful when the young lady’s limitations were revealed. Moral of the story: get the facts before you impulsively gratify yourself, and ensure that both parties have the legal and emotional ability to consent. If the OP is being bullied it is because he behaved like a cad.
Priest: Three Hail Mary’s.
MOL: But, Father, I’m not even Catholic.
Priest: So what are you doing here?
MOL: Father, I’m telling everybody.
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Is anyone else getting Arrested Development flashbacks or is it just me?
You really do sound like a genius pioneer and all that, but as people have mentioned: yeah, it’s his fault. Part of his logic relied on figuring out whether or not he was breaking any laws, then side-stepping the the girl’s mother. The moment some kid says to you “don’t tell your mom in front of my mom that we’re dating!” is probably the moment you realize that she really shouldn’t be sexually active just yet. He’s a stupid 18 year old kid who wanted to get laid. I get it and I get it again. At the end of the day if he’s mature enough to be sexually active, he’s mature enough to work out all the angles to make sure it’s safe beyond being legal. Not to mention, like it’s been mentioned already, this kid just wanted to brag to the internet that he’s having sex. The fact that it turns out the girl is almost certainly younger than 14 years old just makes it sad and pathetic. And yes, his fault. Like people have mentioned, if he’s getting bullied it’s because he acted like a turd.
BPC, when do you plan on telling us about the pregnancy?
According to the law, it very well could be. IIRC, saying, “But she swore she was 18!” isn’t a valid defense. Of course, that depends on whether or not he actually broke the law (it sounds like there might be a Romeo and Juliet clause, plus this is Germany).
But dumping everything on the girl, while the guy gets off scot free is not only stupid, but a really shitty and sexist attitude. And HE’S the older of the two.
You people need to stop assuming this. Huh, maybe it’s just that most of my real problems involve my dick? Maybe, just maybe, it’s that relationships are where I (like most men) have trouble and need advice from elders? Maybe I was genuinely acting for advice on what to do, and not just trying to brag about fucking a legal girl who I did not see as developmentally arrested? Like, I spent a lot of time hanging out and talking with her, and I didn’t see anything that made her seem dysfunctional at all. You people need to stop assuming that anyone who brings up sex in an issue they’re having is going for a stealth brag, because that’s bullshit. I didn’t address anything else because it’s pretty much on the mark (save for the lied about her age part; she’s 16 and her mom was referring to her mental age – something I still find bullshit), and yes, I fucked up, but will you stop assuming that I’m here to brag?
The moment she told me that was the last time I saw her in person. So kindly fuck off with that noise, and at least pretend you read the OP, k?
You want who to what?