What great news! Then all of this business with Nebraska’s constitutional amendment banning civil unions, domestic partner benefits, and anything even remotely helpful for gay people must have just been a BIG MISUNDERSTANDING. Amazing that no one realized that beforehand.
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Blackbirdxx, if you must be offensively wrong, could you at least try to get the factual portions straight?
When? In some states (Virginia for instance civil unions are expressly forbidden by law.
Who is arguing this? I am sure that to tens of millions of people in the 1950s and 1960s who were suffering under Mao, Stalin, tribal wars in Africa, border wars in Israel/Palestine, etc., the plite of the blacks in Jim Crow America would have seemed a paradise by comparison, so using your own [ahem]logic, should MLK, Malcolm X, Rosa Parks, etc., have just shut their fucking cake-holes and gone around to the back door for the rest of their life or until such time as they were officially The Most Persecuted People™? (Wait, don’t respond-- I fear your answer.)
I am a homosexual in America and I fucking will fight.
Cracker dumbass. I’ve known people who surpass you in powers of cognitive construction, command of facts and abilities with rational argument who’ve gotten their feeding tubes pulled.
The one I heard from my boss at least once a day for almost 3 years:
“God created Adam & Eve not Adam & Steve” yuk yuk! (apparently it is ALWAYS funny if you are brain dead).
And Rosa had a seat. Then she had to insist on one at the front of the bus, same as the white folks. :rolleyes:
It’s not up to me, as a straight man, to tell my gay brothers and sisters how much inequality they should accept. It’s up to me to support them in their struggle for full equality.
Oh, for Og’s sake, you are so right. Homophobia would almost be bearable if only they would get some new material! I mean Christ, people.
And Fred’s been milking that “fags” thing for, what, at least ten, fifteen years now. Find some other words! There are lots! You are working my last nerve!
That gives me images of Queer Eye making over the Phelps clan. “Now this 10-gallon gives you some authoritative character especially with the turquoise and it matches your sign…” or Jai explaining how to upgrade posters to Power Point and “fudgepacking sissyboy is really far more 21st century than fag, but how about giving it a British touch with ''pooftah” or even ‘angel raping sodomite’, and above all, when telling them they’re going to die of AIDS and burn in hell, use their name and make eye contact…"
Blackbird - well you could always ask Matthew Sheppard what its like to be gay in America. He’d probably do some petty whining no doubt.
I am not gay but I can easily see what a damned liability it is to have that sexual orientation. I live in Massachusetts - yeah we have legal gay marriage here. Has it destroyed the moral fibre of the state, the country, the world? Hell no. Some people are much too touchy on that subject though.
As far as homosexuality “going against nature”? What a crock of shit !! I’d love to tell Pat Robertson, Jerry Falwell, etc that things such as television, computers, credit cards, and so on are nowhere to be found in nature (or the Bible for that matter). Therefore televangelists should get their ugly faces off the television screen and go preach out in the middle of a field. (getting back to nature right?) Oh and don’t use a PA Sysytem because I have never seen a grizzly bear or a snowy egret using one of those (nor Moses or Jesus). Oh and when they a$k for contributions by all means they should not accept those unnatural credit cards. Tools of the Devil - that’s what they are.
Just one more thing I wish the fundamentalists would get through their heads. Try reading more than just one fucking book !!! You might actually learn something.
Straight woman, relocated from downtown Vancouver and a job in the heart of the gay district to Calgary, Alberta chiming in.
Gosh darnit (fucking shit) I’m sick to death of anti-gay rhetoric. Seriously. I have never met so many straight ignorant people in my life. I’ve lived a relatively sheltered life, my friends and family being (relatively) liberal in attitude. Here, though… goodness. The only gay bar I’ve found is a hole in the wall, and people express anti-gay bullshit like this was America pre-civil rights. I’m so fucking sick of it.
Fuck who you want, when you want, how you want, in front of me or behind closed doors. Just BE HAPPY. I’m tired of hearing people bitch about something they know nothing about.
I remember a “Kids in the Hall” sketch where Dave Foley was analyzing the word “faggot” and trying to figure out why it riled folks up so much. He determined that the problem was the “T”, I have used the word “faggo” as much as possible ever since.
Unclviny’s deal with the world:
I don’t hold anyone in higher or lower regard based on what color they are or who they fuck or if they pray or who they pray to or whatever. Life is tough enough without picking fights.
I agree. I mean, civil unions are equally as good as marriage and include all the same rights, they just have a separate name. See, they’re separate, but equal, so it’s totally okay.
::waves a big green flag with an S on it, just in case:: (The ‘S’ is for “sarcastic”)
Well, folks, the purpose of this board is fighting ignorance. I’d say we’ve found our latest opponent.
As others have said, society didn’t offer civil unions; in fact, in some states civil unions have been explicitly made illegal. Nothing Sampiro has said is an exaggeration. I’m a straight woman who’s rather thoroughly and sappily in love with a man who is just as thoroughly and sappily in love with me. I can kiss him good-bye in public, bring him to my church, talk about him at work, and induce saccharine poisoning in waiters at restaurants because we’re so busy holding hands and looking in each others’ eyes that we haven’t noticed we’ve been there for two hours, (yes, we do make up for it with the tip) and no one’s going to say anything except, “Aww! How cute!” and maybe, “So, you two going to get married?” If Sampiro were to try that with someone he loved, he’d be accused of being disgusting, immoral, lewd and God knows what else. Rather than being encouraged to marry, he’s told that his desire to marry destroys the institution of marriage itself.
Then again, perhaps women shouldn’t have complained when our career options were pretty much limited to secretary, teacher, or nurse and any woman who wasn’t married by 25 or 30 was a pitiful, hopeless old maid. :rolleyes: I assume you’ve got a life which suits you. Good. Please allow Sampiro and me the same privilege.
But why was that sarcastic? They DO have the same rights as marriage. Marriage has a vaguely religous overtone, civil union does not.
If I ever felt the need (as a straight woman) to become legaly joined to someone, I would definitely use the civil union option. No god stuff…same desire to be recognised as a couple and celebrate that fact with friends.
I am very happy civil unions are now an option in NZ.
It seems, according to our latest ‘guest’ that discrimination, legal and otherwise, is just fine and dandy, provided it is done by the majority. That is so incredibly well thought out. Fuckstick.
Sampiro, I don’t know what to say man, Talibama is the arsehole of the country when it comes to respecting the rights of minorities. I am an immigrant. I married a girl from Alabama. The thing is, because I am in no way straight I could as easily have fallen for a guy here. You reckon I could have immigrated then? No fucking way. Almost any other Western nation - yes, and without question. Here? not a chance. In fact, the US will nto even recognise de facto relationships between straight people. Gotta be that religious thing you know?
The only thing I can suggest is that we keep fighting this shit. And maybe go out for a beer some time
>>…considering, as I said, that what gains we’ve made have been entirely the result of our ‘whining.’ But please, don’t trouble yourself to have a point.<<
Ah, but you are incorrect. The gains have been the result of action, not “whining.”
Read the title to this thread. This is a “whining thread.” Boohoo, somebody is tired of the "same fucking homophobic ‘arguments’ - so what? Well, guess what? I’m tired of whining fuckers.
I am (already) sick of you. I bet you think taking action is another form of whining anyway. After all, what is a protest or demonstration if not ‘whining’?