Way back in time I posted this thread about letting my ex move in. After I posted the thread I didn’t hear much from him. A few weeks later my basement was filled with some of his belongings (bed, dresser, TV), but no Emo. Okay. I can be a storage facility. I figured he had to out of where he was living, so he moved the big stuff here and went back to living with the GF. Not that he called to let me know any of this, of course. However, I did have a nice few convos with the GF and realized that they both are fricking stone cold idiots. They deserve each other, really.
Flash forward to last Thursday. I was yippee excited because he has finally paid his child support arrears in full, he was back on track, and I didn’t have to see him - just his stuff. I can handle that. Nope. The same day I received a nifty check for LilMiss he comes over and lets me know he was shitcanned at work.
Fuck.
Fuckity fuck fuck.
Granted it’s not much, but it’s what pays for the clothes LilMiss goes through seemingly weekly, her allergy meds (inherited from… her dad), and for us to maybe take in a movie and to give her an allowance.
I can deal with it. We’ll just have to scale down. Went to the cabin for the weekend, relaxed, got my head on straight. Came home Tuesday…
To Emo moving the rest of his crap into my basement. NO!! To top it off, he did it while the GF was at work. She came home to find him and his stuff gone and promptly came over and began catterwauling in my driveway. To give Emo a bit of credit, I told him I didn’t want her in my house and he complied. I am surprised no one called the cops.
So, since Tuesday I’ve had my ex’s unemployed ass in my house. And I FUCKING HATE IT. He asked, and we got him registered for unemployment, which will be a pittance. We also sat down and printed off some job openings. Pretty promising job leads. If not in his field, jobs that would pay pretty decent for someone of his abilities. Did he call on them? Hell no! He’s HOPING to get a job managing a fucking Subway. YOU’RE A CHEF YOU FUCK! Can I drive your ass around to look for a job? I GAVE you the bus schedules, I’m working, you have feet. No, you can’t use my car. Gas is up to $2.20/gallon and I KNOW you won’t fill up the tank when you’re done.
Whoop-de-fucking-do, you’ll make dinner. I have to buy the groceries, of course. Go ahead, drink a fucking gallon of milk a day, I don’t mind. So what if my grocery bill has more than doubled since you’ve been here. I mave money just flying out of my ass. FUCKTARD. I didn’t ASK if you LIKED pork chops, it’s what there is. You want something different? GO BUY IT YOURSELF. Oh, that’s right. YOU’RE NOT WORKING. BUT you CAN go to the bar with your buddies. And WHY should I mind when the barbimbo you chatted up calls over here. But that’s between his ex GF calling 4 -5 times a day and all of his buddies calling here, and his previous co-workers calling here. Yes it does bother me and NO I WON’T PUT IN ANOTHER FUCKING PHONE LINE FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE!
I suppose I should thank you for locking up when you went out Friday night. If you did so. No, I come home to the front door unlocked, the TV on, the bathroom a shambles, and you left all your lights on downstairs. I asked you last night to lock the back door. “I did”. No you didn’t, you asshat. Granted, I live in a fairly safe area, but not enough to leave the doors unlocked overnight! Okay, maybe my slamming the door shut saying “WHAT THE FUCK? Are you a MORON?” loudly wasn’t quite appropriate, but when I’ve been woken by your ex fucking girlfriend calling at 8 in the fucking morning after listening to you whine until 3 in the fucking morning, I think I have a right to be cranky! OH! We’re out of clean dishes? Then don’t take a clean one for everything. Seriously, if you’ve had toast on a plate, you can rinse it off. Or better yet? WASH THEM!! Wait! Look! My favorite glass!! The one you used drinking my beer. It’s in the garbage!! Broken. You’ll buy me another one? WITH WHAT? MY MONEY??
Between you and your child I am about ready to go postal. I get annoyed enough having to remind her to pick up after herself, but she’s 11. YOU’RE 34! And can we talk about your promise to spend time with her on Thursday night, but then disappearing? I don’t care if your ex fucking girlfriend was in tears. And don’t try to explain that you didn’t really promise - I WAS THERE.
Fuckity fuck fuck fuck. Why the FUCK did I agree to this. I’m glad you appreciate it. I know I “saved your ass”. Who’s going to save my sanity? When I ask you to do something, like, maybe, take your laundry out, don’t nod at me and keep doing whatever you’re doing. Then, when I remove your stuff an hour later and plop it on your bed, don’t you DARE say you didn’t know I needed the washer. Fucker.