Way to go, Greathouse! I’m glad it worked out for you and your bud. Thanks for setting a mature example. Try and ignore the petty hijack of your thread.
I really appreciate that you got that question answered for us. It was IMHO my take on what had happened, but you showed that it was not the case. I was mistaken in my reading of it. My experiences in my ever lengthening life lead me to my perceptions. Go in peace.
As for our friendly neighborhood pile-on monkeys, I always appreciate a vigorous workout.
Your welcome. No harm, no foul. 
Glad to hear things are resolved GreatHouse. I came a little late to the thread, but it sound like others said all that I would’ve anyway.
Good job, Greathouse. I’m gald it all worked out.
Now you can help him get laid by someone who really is interested in guys.
So by “very seldom” that’s what, 1 time in 10? 1 in 20? I’m curious.