For me, this is a first.
It says, “Valentine- There are many ways you share your love…A smile, a kiss, a touch…” Inside, “For all you are and say and do…I love you very much.” Then, “I’m thinking of you always, love, XXXX. (signed) -----”
Argh. This is a woman I have painted for; she has a large condo. Despite the fact that I make much of the fact I have a male SO, I have rebuffed her advances quite strongly (I mean, she grabbed me and tried to french kiss me for God’s sake), I have refused gifts, and the last time I went there (which WILL be the last time), I took a very large butch employee of mine for protection…she persists. She has told me she’s driven past my house to see if I’m home. She calls me and leaves messages offering to take me out to dinner or for icecream. (really.)
Good lord. This woman is very well-off and has a large circle of friends & family in the city. She’s not a lonely old lady. At first I wasn’t sure if she wasn’t just a friendly, touchy kind of person, but after the attempted french kiss thing, well…If it was a man, I would have no problem making myself fairly clear. But she’s really a nice old lady, she has just developed this weird thing for me. I do a lot of painting in her building (A high rise luxury condo building) so I can’t help but run into her. I’m not going to turn down lucrative work for people I like because of some addled old stalker.
I’m a bit confused by this, and feel sort of sorry for her. I’ll just continue to try avoiding her, I’ll wear extra baggy clothes when I work in her building. And I’ll continue to take Big Deb (who finds this really amusing) for protection.
Ok, I guess this is a mindless petty thing I’m sharing!