A few day after breaking up with someone I was with for five years I met a wondeful woman. She was everything I was looking for , funny, intreresting, able to talk about current events, had her own opinions and all my friends liked her.
We have been dating for a little over two months. On Thursday we went out to dinner and the movies and everything seemed fine. She was happy and I was happy.
Last night she had to cancel our date because she said she had to go to a safety training class at work. I told her I understool that in her line of work, unexpected events happen. Now I’m not so sure she had the training to attend.
A few weeks after we started dating I was invited to a get together held by some people I became friends with while dating my now ex. She was invited because they wanted to meet her. Originaly she wasn’t going to go because my ex was going to be there and she didn’t want to meet her because bad things would happen.
I tried to assure her that nothing bad would happen and that my ex and I are on friendly terms. I work with her friend and she became friends with some of my friends so I was bound to see her on a friendly basis.
I have the “ability” to stay friendly with my ex’es even though I’m not romanticly intrested in them.
She agreed to go and says she liked them even my ex and I thought all was good.
A close friend of mine who I knew for years invited some of her friends (including my ex) to a dinner/game night before I could tell her if I was going she told me my GF was going so I said I’ll be there (First I heard of this). When my GF found out exacly who was invited she said she isn’t going to go because my EX will be there. Further when that group of friends I know through my EX have an event she will not go either.
She says I am free to go but I have to make an excuse why she isn’t attending.
I don’t understand this sudden change, she won’t talk to me about the change. It’s like she is an entirely different person. I don’t like this new person I want the old person back.
I don’t know if I can go and make excuses why she isn’t with me at dinner parties/group get-togethers. No I take that back I’m not going to be able to make excuses because I’m not going to lie to them.
I know ton Thursday (and this is not an excuse) that she was saying she was starting to feel like she was getting her period and if this is related to that I can accept and deal with it each month because I honelsty love her.
I’m not going to break up with her over this but I have the feeling she may be breaking up with me.