I have this friend (more-then-friends), I feel very comfortable with her and I love spending time with her. A couple days ago I brought up her ex boyfriend. (why? cause I’m dumb). Her last boyfriend cheated on her a couple times and she doesn’t like talking about him, that right there should’ve stopped me from bringing it up. But it didn’t so I asked anyway. Apperently, she gave him a couple hand-jobs and his juice touched her hand on one occasion. I have no idea why this bothers me as much as it does. I was cool with the hand-jobs but when she mentioned the splooge, my heart like sank.
Anyway, on to the other thing. After the first time he cheated on her, she took him back. They went together for another 3 months before she found out that he was still cheating. Anyway, in those three months, they had sex. Now, me being worked up over that is just stupid. I didn’t even know her when all this was going on. She was dumb and in love so of course she had sex with him even after he cheated. But when I think about it, I kinda think twice about doing anything with her. Like, I don’t want to have sex with her. It’s just me being dumb.
So Dopers, I need help. Someone smack some sense into me. I like talking to her, I like listening to her, I like just being around her. She’s like no one I’ve ever met. I don’t want silly things like the splooge and the sex ruining our friendship. I need some sense smacked into me.