A cousin died at the end of December, and his mother, my aunt, 94, died in January. Saturday there was a funeral service for my aunt, a potluck for remembering my aunt and cousin, and a ‘cousin-style’ after-party. Mrs. L.A. and I drove out to Coeur d’Alene Friday – which is a bit of a haul, because you can’t get there from here. Mrs. L.A. is a Baptist (or something), so I wondered how she’d handle the Catholic ceremony. (Personally, I found there was a lot of standing up and sitting down.) She really liked the church, the ceremony, and the priest (who is polish and speaks with a fairly strong accent).
Mrs. L.A. insisted we bring something to the potluck, so we stopped by a supermarket after changing into more casual clothes. I bought five pounds of cubed watermelon, five pounds of some sort of bean dip (refried beans, cheese, sour cream guacamole, salsa… I didn’t have any, so I don’t know what-all was in it), and a bag of Juanita’s tortilla chips. I don’t know about the chips, but the watermelon and dip were obliterated. I don’t know how many times we heard, ‘You look just like your dad!’ I get that a lot, every time there’s a gathering. A cousin’s granddaughter said I looked like… someone. Her uncle or someone. I didn’t tell her she looked like Verruca Salt from Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory (1971), though she really did. Oh, and I had lost 70 pounds since the last time we were all together (for another aunt’s 90th birthday party in 2016), so I got ‘You look great!’ comments. My cousin whom I think looks very much like Laurence Fishburne, said he was very annoyed by my weight loss, since he would like to lose weight himself.
After returning to our hotel for a couple of hours to recharge, we headed out to Spirit Lake. From the name, I thought the lake was filled with rum. My assumption turned out to be incorrect. We didn’t stay long at the after-party. Mrs. L.A. was being harassed by mosquitoes, and her back was hurting her.
We drove home today, stopping to pick the cat up from Cat Country Resort. Anyway, I got to see my relatives, they got to meet Mrs. L.A., and Mrs. L.A. got to meet the family.