Don’t worry, Nika. I’m not defending her. I talked to her on the phone and it seems she’s not gonna post here again. I would say I’m sorry about that, but the truth is, I’m kinda relieved. In fact, I agreed with the general consensus of everyone in the Pit thread. It was immature and childish, and she wasn’t coming off well at all. My biggest regret is she presented herself so poorly and no one saw how great she is IRL.
:: sigh ::
I can totally understand that. It is too bad because I am sure she is a great girl, but it might not be the best idea. My boyfriend is a poster here and was before I was. It hasn’t come out yet, but I will tell you. (oh dear, now you all know) 
I just don’t want people to judge either of us based on the other.
I think it is also a good idea to keep your relationship to you both. She did stir up quite a bit here though. I’ll miss that.