I still have my grandfather’s bathrobe. It’s nothing special and I hardly ever wear it, but I have it. My cousin gave me a pair of earrings when she got married. She was 19 and I was about 10. I’ve had the earrings for almost 40 years (they’re not actually that little-girly) and one of them flew off the other day when I took them off. It has to be somewhere in my house (and yes, I’ll be regretfully going through the contents of the vacuum cup the next time I empty it), but it makes me really really sad that I can’t find the earring because my cousin died about 5 years ago (and she was my favorite cousin; one of the kindest people ever).
That’s a long way of saying, I understand why you’re upset. You’ve lost a connection to your sister.
Excellent OP, Nava. I think we should collect several of our Moms and send them on a tour together. They’d probably get along famously. My mother is famously snoopy and would rearrange stuff just to see if she can learn any information I may be keeping from her. Yes, I am over 12, thankyewverymuch.
Oh, and every time I read Tudela, I thought Midela (just a little leftover from one of Nava’s previous posts…).
Almost forgot, picu: OW! OW OW OW OW OW!. Hope you feel better quickly.
So, Spats, are you even a little bit excited about going out to dinner on Thursday? Just wondering, because it wasn’t clear. 
Did everyone see that SurrenderDorothy checked in at the end of the last MMP? Thought I’d post a link since someone asked about her in last week’s MMP.
I have to do some QA on the data I cleaned up over the weekend. I think I’m done, but I pulled a sample and found some stuff that didn’t quite make sense. I’m hoping I just joined something oddly in the sample (I didn’t actually pull it for QA purposes). Thought I’d double-checked my way through everything, but now I’m scared to death I may have messed something. That would be not good.
I know I’ve forgotten stuff; I read every post, but I’m tired and really need to go re-validate numbers, not to mention eat dinner…
Back after the numbers are clean.
GT