I'm *so* sick of women...

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Every single part of my life has become superficial… first and foremost, my dating scene. Take, me, an average guy, and that’s it, and I’ll never get laid… But take me, a 6 figure income, good, job and nice car and all of a sudden women can’t control themselves. I have stopped looking for a girlfriend because I don’t need one. I don’t need a girl who only loves me for my money or my appearance. Or even better, the women who always says “I love you” but you find the girl cheating on you. I don’t need that kind of love. I don’t want match.com and I don’t need a bar scene… When I go to the bar these days it’s to drink and watch all these idiots do there thing.

I’m getting to wonder if there is a single good looking woman out there who would actually love me for better or for worse. It’s funny… a girl who’s hot is “in demand”… millions of guys want them, so they can demand whatever the fuck they want. Their ego gets out of control and they don’t have to maintain it simply because they don’t have to.

I don’t need a woman… I’ve stripped that from my “reason to live”. I don’t care what friends think. I probably will not get married because of this… But hopefully my parents will understand.

I hate girls. Too bad I’m not gay I guess…

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Us men are no better.

Humans suck regardless of the equipment between their legs.

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A misogynist who can’t find a girlfriend… Shocking!

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Indeed!

Thaidog: When you lament that no “good looking” girl will love you “for better or worse”, I have to wonder—what do you mean by “good looking”? Do you mean, “Supermodel gorgeous”? Because that sounds like what you are saying, when you utter stuff like this:

There are plenty of attractive (not super-gorgeous, but attractive) girls out there. They are not in “hot demand” in the way you describe, and probably they don’t have “a million guys” chasing after them. But they are intelligent and attractive. Of course, these perfectly attractive, intelligent women probably are not looking for a misogynist who bitches because all the supermodel-hot babes won’t love him no matter what, so there you go.

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No kidding: why loving someone for their looks is somehow better than loving them for their money I am sure I don’t understand.

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I like the fact that he’s bitching that he doesn’t want a woman who won’t love him “for his money or his apperance,” yet he’s looking for a “hot” girl.

Yes, because women aren’t supposed to be superficial, so obviously a girl who works hard at making sure she’s not overwieght and comfortable with her appearance shouldn’t mind dating a fat slob who probably doesn’t bathe and has bad hygene. I mean, that’s the way most couples look like to me. :rolleyes:

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I’ve said that I hated men before, usually after a terrible relationship. I didn’t really mean it. I am going to assume that Thaidog doesn’t really mean it.

However, I agree with the other posters: if you’re looking for a supermodel, you’re as superficial as the women who want to date you.

I wish I could put about fifty men and women in a completely dark room and leave them there for a month. Then, when everyone has hooked up, turn on the lights. I bet the results would be surprising.

And then, if the lights go on and someone like Thaidog recoils in shock because the woman next to him doesn’t have the most favored ratio between skin/hair/distance between facial features, I fervently hope that this man feels ashamed because he is so EMPTY inside.

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To paraphrase Johnson, a man who is sick of women is sick of life.

Most women, most of the time, are wonderful and worth getting to know, and they should be respected and appreciated for whatever their finer qualities may be. I know many who bring a great deal of magic into my life (and since she will read this, I ought to say yes, Zinfandel-slurping Corinda-reading Ms. F, that includes you!).

Maybe, Thaidog, your observations about women say more about you than they do about women. Maybe, too, you will find women to be wonderful as and when you give them a reason to think likewise about you (hint: ‘I am so sick of women’ isn’t the best start… ).

Yes, there are some exceptions, and sometimes relationships and dealings with women can go pear-shaped. So what? You’re a grown-up now. You take the knocks, you deal, you learn and you move on to happier times. It’s called life.

For me, the occasional tribulations don’t alter my main article of faith: with few exceptions, women are the most fascinating, delightful, intriguing, charming, interesting, intelligent and life-enhancing creatures on the planet. I also happen to think almost all of them are beautiful - some in ways you can see, others in ways that aren’t so obvious. As an added bonus, and WHAT a bonus, some are also deliciously sexy (again, sometimes in ways you can spot a mile off, and sometimes in ways that aren’t so blatant). And when that sexiness get’s to be shared and appreciated…, well now, ain’t it just a joy to be alive?!

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Amen!

But, in fairness to Thaidog, it has been noted, elsewhere on this board, that the Carolinas produce way more than their fare share of stunningly gorgeous women. And, that has to make it harder on a guy when he’s alone.

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Quick! Pitch that to Endemol before someone else does!

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From one of my favourite authors, Jennifer Crusie:

And sheesh, you’re not even offering them love - it looks like an attractive combination of bitterness and suspicion. If Hot Girl is going to put up with that, it may as well be from Joe Millionaire, Billy Hard-Abs or Hans Seven-Orgasms-A-Night.

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Okay, maybe it’s just where I live, but…

… I have never seen a gorgeous woman driving a beater car. They’re all driving around in brand new cars, or cars not more than a year or two old. Nice cars, too. Explanation? They’ve all got well-off husbands (and probably have good jobs themselves, too).

Fact is, attractive people get better jobs, and can attract other beautiful people. And the occasional unattractive person who gets a really good-paying job can still attract beautiful people.

Most of us have seen, at one time or another, a drop-dead gorgeous woman hanging on the arm of a considerably-less-than-attractive man. And if you follow them around, you’ll eventually see then getting into a really really nice expensive car. Go figure.

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Okay, maybe it’s just where I live, but…

… I have never seen a gorgeous woman driving a beater car. They’re all driving around in brand new cars, or cars not more than a year or two old. Nice cars, too. Explanation? They’ve all got well-off husbands (and probably have good jobs themselves, too).

Fact is, attractive people get better jobs, and can attract other beautiful people. And the occasional unattractive person who gets a really good-paying job can still attract beautiful people.

Most of us have seen, at one time or another, a drop-dead gorgeous woman hanging on the arm of a considerably-less-than-attractive man. And if you follow them around, you’ll eventually see them getting into a really really nice expensive car. Go figure.

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That entire post is one of the biggest loads of illogical and unsubstantiated crap I’ve read to date on these boards. It would be funny except I think you actually believe it’s true.

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I agree. In fact, I haven’t seen any attactive woman who spent more than 5 seconds of her life single. Its rather tragic that the women I find attractive are the same women that 98% of the guys around me find attractive- I can’t handle all the competition! :stuck_out_tongue:

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My advice to you is to start dating fat chicks. They may not be supermodels but they’re going to be unbelievably faithful to a man like you.

As for deriding people for being shallow, everyone’s fucking shallow. Men are shallow about women’s appearance, and women are shallow about men’s money and status. I’m not saying I like this, or it’s right - neither is true. However, that is how 99% of people in the world are.

Hell man, what the fuck are you really complaining about? You have girls all over you with no commitment necessary. Fucking death, if you hate this state of affairs so much, give your six figures to me - I’ll take it gladly, and all the shallow, materialistic bitches that come with it. I have no problem exploiting such people the way they wish to exploit me. And then you can go back to being poor as dirt if that’s the only thing that makes you happy.
If none of the above are acceptable, might I suggest you buy a used Honda Cvic and drive it everywhere, dress in semi-worn jeans and t-shirts, get yourself a modest apartment, and never, ever tell anyone that you’re rich? Then at least you won’t be drowning in a sea of gold diggers, and you’ll have a chance at finding someone who loves you for who you are, instead of being impressed by your pretentious suit, expensive car, and large stock portfolio.

I would say that I have no sympathy for you, but that’s not quite true. I do have a little bit. But I also believe you have the power to change things to make them much more along the lines of what you want. Thing is, I’m not sure you’re willing to truly abandon the high class, rich-boy fascade that keeps you swimming in easy, if shallow poontang. Hell, in your shoes, I definitely wouldn’t…
-Ben

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Well, now you know one. I drive an old Tercel that looks like someone dragged a shopping cart up and down the sides a few dozen times (It was like that when I bought it), and I think I qualify as a “gorgeous” woman.

Neither have I ever dated a rich man. I wouldn’t be opposed to it, but 1. I’ve never met one, and 2. He’d have to still be attractive to me, which means I’d probably have to meet a lot of them before I found one I liked. And I have a pretty crap job.

Most of the aspiring models I’ve met through my photographers also tend to not be very well off. Maybe you’re just not noticing the hot girls that aren’t in expensive cars. Maybe you notice the car first, and then who’s driving it. :stuck_out_tongue:

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Fact of life, Thaidog: “hot” women do tend to be shallow and self-centered, and it’s because for their entire lives in our appearance-driven society they’ve had their pick of men. (Note: I said this is a tendency, not a rule.) Also, maybe–just maybe–they sometimes get a bit tired of not being loved for who they are. (That’s just a WAG, as I am somewhat on the cute side but about a two-hour drive from hot.)

Second point: do you really think you’re going to meet the love of your life, your soulmate, the woman you can’t live without–in a BAR? I’m sure it happens, but if I were single, that’s the LAST place I’d be looking for a life partner, though I might hang out there just to have a good time.

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No, “fat chicks” (as you so eloquently phrased it) will not be “unbelievably faithful” to a man like the OP. Oddly enough, women of all sizes can spot a jerk.

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This thread is begging to be moved to the Pit. It’s on its hands and knees, whimpering “Please! Pleeeeeease!”

Hey, that rhymes!