I don’t have a problem finding a girl friend. I just hate what I find when I find them. it’s always the same story. the girl gives you a good show, but when another, richer man comes along they drop you like yesterday’s news.
btw, I know I’m being double standardized about this, I guess women have just been getting the best of me lately. Oh well I guess it’s all part of the game.
I’ve had my share of bad dates, but I can’t see any reason to go off on the entire female gender with such a broad brush when there are so many good reasons to hate people on an individual basis.
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Well, Thaidog, stop with the double standard.
You can’t have it all your way. You can’t have a hot babe that wants you and only you. Or so that seems to be. So stop only looking for the hot babes.
As mentioned before, there are plenty of attractive women (and that term differs with each individual) out there. They may not be perfect, they may not be perfectly hot, but they are attractive, inside and out, and maybe, if you improve your attitude, one of them might find you (not your pocketbook) attractive too.
But then again, you have to open your eyes and see the plethora of attractive women out there. Because they are out there. Not hot, not gorgeous, but attractive. Hell, even I (hideous toad that I think myself to be) is apparently attractive some of the time. Most women are attractive, when it comes right down to it. You only need to open your eyes, and your mind.
Or, you can remain shallow, bitter, and keep up with the double standard. Which, I am happy to see, is a problem that you recognize in yourself. I definitely give you credit for that. And my best wishes go out to you.
Man, the only thing standing between me and blistering hotness is that last five pounds and my Geo Metro.
Would you please listen to what you just told me… Please stop going after the hoties and in place find a slightly less attractive women that I can keep “in check better”.
Look dude, I don’t need a less attractive woman so I can dominate them… I’m just trying to find a woman that is what they say… hey if I love you comes out your mouth, you should at least understand what you said.
Plenlty of “Hot Babes” find me attractive… I don’t have to switch shit! (If I do say so myself… honk honk)
Let me give you an example of what I’m talking about… I go to a keg party the other night… A friend’s party… they have planty of there wake boarding buddies over… and because of this plaenty of hot chicks… This one chick (I don’t know) comes in with what looks to be her boyfriend… hey they came in holding hands, and half an hour later she talking to me… actting seductive…etc. I am not hitting on this girl… the "boy friend comes in the room and see her talking to me and gets pissed at her… And in my eyes rightfully so. The short of it is I leave the party early and go home and write this thread.
Oh wait did I say anything about the Chick from France who’s coming to visit…again! They only reason this gril likes me is because she knows I’ve got money and I can get her in the the United States… I’ve already made it clear that I don’t do the Green Card thing but she wants to come over here again anyway!
What am I supposed to do?
What are you supposed to do! Perhaps tell her, “I know you want into the U.S., that being the reason you’re cozying up. As I said before, Homey don’t play that. Bye”
Doesn’t seem like such a quandary to me.
…And I don’t think that yosemitebabe was indicating that you should “stop going after the hoties [sic]” & ‘resign’ yourself to a woman who doesn’t look like a model; I think that your misinterpretation is part of your problem.
In fact, I think that she was saying just the opposite: By opening your mind to the idea of dating women who may not be what “hot” is considered to be right now, you’re expanding your possibilities, not resigning yourself to dating chicks who aren’t “hot”.
IOW, what I got from her post is a suggestion that just because a woman doesn’t have the look required for work as a model/actress/dancer doesn’t mean that she’s not an attractive woman, & the fact that you’re having trouble seeing that could be why you’re ending up with the personalities you are.
Please copy and paste where I wrote that I wanted you to look for girls who you could “keep in check.” Wow. What a bizarre take you had on my posts.
And please—don’t twist around my description of “attractive” women. I didn’t mean “less attractive” as in “unattractive.” I meant: ATTRACTIVE. Not “hot”, attractive. “Hot” can mean, perfect body, perfect hair, stylish “hot” clothes, an air of uber-confidence.
“Attractive” may include one or more of these qualities: Pleasant appearance, quiet appearance that “grows” on you, pretty bone structure, decent figure, tasteful clothes, unusual clothes, thrift store clothes, a good mind with plenty of interesting things to talk about, good personality, twisted sense of humor, cares about others, is not a doormat, thinks for herself.
Do I make myself a little clear? There are a lot of attractive women out there. They are not doormats. They are smart. They are not perhaps oh-my-gosh-stop-the-car-look-at-that-babe hot, but they are pleasant to look at, and when someone takes the time to look, their beauty and qualities become more obvious. And they are decent people—not shallow bimbos that will hit on the next rich guy that comes along. And they are attractive. Attractive, inside and out. Not just “hot” on the outside, which is the kind of girl you seem to be complaining about. These attractive girls are not “less”, unless you are a shallow twit who can’t seem to recognize or appreciate “attractive” and “quality” and “decent” when it stumbles across your path.
This is not to say that there aren’t any supermodel-hot women out there who are also decent and sweet people, but so far you’ve sucked at finding them, haven’t you? But feel free to keep trying. You attitude so far is apparently really working for you. :rolleyes:
Is my name "yosemitedude"? I think not! 
And “less attractive” women everywhere are sighing heavily in relief. :rolleyes:
Well, you need to start looking for women that are not lying bitches. And if you look past the hot babes, you’ll have a far greater pool of women to choose from, won’t you?
And as I explained above (and above that, and above that) I don’t expect you to chase after “less attractive” women, just “attractive” women. We all want someone we date to be attractive—to us. No one deliberately chases after people they find unattractive. All I’m saying is that you need to open your mind a little, and open your eyes. There are a lot of attractive women out there, and some of them are not lying bitches. And they are not doormats.
But I guess the “hot babes” don’t really want you, since they all dump you. Isn’t that what you are complaining about?
So I guess they are not really finding you “attractive” after all, since you are so dispensible to them that they’ll drop you as soon as something better comes along.
So, my point is this: you aren’t going to get it all your way. And if you think it is “beneath you” to start opening your mind to other attractive girls, well, fine. The attractive girls are, after all, attractive, and have plenty of non-shallow, non-bitter guys who will appreciate them. So fine. Be miserable. Stick with the dishonest hot babes that don’t really want you, and obviously don’t really find you attractive. But hey! They are hot! So that’s all that counts, huh?
I don’t think I understand this thread.
“I’m good-looking and rich, and I can have any girl I want, but I don’t like girls because they’re attracted to good-looking rich guys”? Is that the gist here?
If so, then be sure never to join any club that would have someone like you as a member.
Ugh! <throws up hands in disgust>
By all means, go out with the “hoties” at the kegger. She will absolutely appreciate all the qualities about you that matter.
Stay away from the rest of us! Please!
Homie don’t play that…lol That’s good.
I still don’t see how dating a slightly less hot chick is going to help things. Remember, my problem is with chicks in general, not just hot chicks. Today’s woman does not want to be found “in the kitchen” they want a job just like a man. Well that’s fine with me, but that does not mean that I should just become this whipped puppy… yes dear… of course dear… here’s my wallet dear…
I’m saying that if you want to be treated as equal you should drop the attitude, otherwise I will not be dating… you don’t get my country club member ship, take My gold card to the mall, drive around in my BMW. No! it will not happen again! “So and so’s making 200k!” Well go fuck them and stop rubbing it in my face! That’s childish!
Don’t worry I’m only one man out of a million obviously some men are willing to put up with this shit.
oh my god… you are so obviouly one of those womem sorry DUDE… of I mean lady Oh I’m mean… equeal person of lesser sex… oh whoops did I fuck up again? My bad!
What’s wrong exaclty with meeting a girl at a keg party?
Please excuse my typing yosemitebabe but you’ve got me so pissed right now, I can’t even type!
Oooh Violet, you beat me to it…
That looks funny… I don’t think I can make it there on my work computer though. I’ll be sure to check it out when I go home though.
Good points… I hearby swear, NEVER to hookup with another “Hot Chick” for the rest of my life… due to the fact these people have certain, shall we say, “psychological issues” and never condone the act to any friends or family either. Therefore, I don’t abuse nor support the abuse of egotistically-chanlleged, young, professinal, women. (No not that professional, but now that it comes to mind those either) I promise.
Now where’s my rock, I’ve seemed to have missplaced it, perhaps I left it in the kitchen, I was making myself a sandwich…
Yes… it would… they’d be hooking up with the most tastey person in the room since they would be starving to death. All else equal of course.
The next time yet another guy says “But you’re a women! Women don’t have to be single. You hold all the cards, you can always get someone, you’re just being too picky.” I’m going to link them right here to see exactly what it is we’re not picking. :rolleyes:
Ok QUEEEN TONYA… gee there’s no issue there… Key phrase: “Yet another guy”
Please do give them the link! We can then hang out.