Well hello all. ive been w/my girlfriend for about 3 yrs now. We have had our goods and bads, and I feel that maybe there is more out there. Something that im missing. I know that i love her, but I dont know if I can stay with her. Make sence to anyone?
You might want to give a little background, doesn’t have to be too much. It just sounds a little vague.
Well let me see… I guess its all very straing. I dont know if I can stay with her because I see other women and think how wonderfull it would be if I had then too. I can be sure of my love for my GF, but I think im just trying to find a valid way out of the relationship anyway. I realy honestly dont have any other reason. I guess im just a pig.
Well, Ain’t nothing wrong with being a pig. If you’re just looking for a way out of the relationship, I recommend the straightforward approach. Saves time, and it’s really the cleanest way to do it.
Welcome to the boards, by the way. Stick around, we like people. And make sure you go to Crunchys Welcome Wagon, which I would link to, but I don’t know the thread number, and I still don’t know how to code it… six months, and I’m still an idiot…
Well love isn’t my main area of expertice, but what does it mean that you are sure of your love for her. I’m guessing(I appologise if i’m assuming wrong) that you are young. It really depends on how you are thinking of these other girls. If you see as hot babe and start thinking of various methods of creating friction, then it just means you an average straight guy. On the other hand if you keep finding girls that you would rather be in a relationship with, then it’s probably not a love that will maintain a healthy relationship.
You can like a chick, and care for her deeply, and really want to be around her, without it being romantic love.
Sometimes these things just run their course. There’s no concrete reason, but you feel like the time has come to end it. The fact that you recognize it is commendable in itself.