My girl: Make up or break up?

Okay, so my guest membership ends tomorrow. I’d like to share this before i go and would appreciate your opinions. Here’s my story: So i leave for a different country leaving my girlfriend back home. Our relationship is a year old but our story goes way back. I was in another relationship when we first met and since day 1, she’s been in love with me. After several years, i broke up with girl number 1 (really tried to make it work but we were so different) and ended up with this girl. Never been happier. Sex was ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL. Life was wonderful. We were in love. That is, until i left. She kinda broke up with me or something and that felt really bad. She swears there’s no other man. Of course, i don’t believe her. (I’m the kind of person who doesn’t trust people that easily. Also, once you f**k up, it’ll take years for me to recover.) Now she’s looking forward to seeing me again and felt she made a mistake.

Okay, in a few days, i’m going back. Here’s what i’m thinking of doing. I’ve got a few choices:

a. Act like a mature person and talk things over. Ask her what happened, ask her if she fell in love with someone else? etc.

b. Kill her.
So what do you think?

PS. You guys are absolutely divine. Enjoyed my stay.

Are you moving back permanently? If not, why bother with the relationship? I mean, it’s not like any of this will make a difference if there’s no chance that you’ll be together. If one of you can make a permanent move, you have to decide if you trust her enough to even want to pursue it. Otherwise, just chalk it up to a nice period in your life and move on.

If you are still interested in her, start seeing her again.

If you are not interested in her, tell her now so you don’t leave her hanging.