Not overrated but obsessed about, yeah. And sometimes not worth it, like the bathroom wall scribble, “The fucking you get ain’t worth the fucking you get.” The best lover I ever had never made me come, but sometimes after we made love I cried because it was just so damn good. It depends, and changes with time, experience and partners so is wildly variable.
pretending to be a palm reader I predict, with so much caring you evidence in your posts, you will find love again. 
Thank you!
I’m not psychic now, but I know I will be in the future.