I started a job just recently at a Warehouse, it’s temporary and I started working and got to know some of the people there. Now it’s all different ages ranges, and I make some friends with guys my age, and friends with people older than me, and one person stands out in particular.
I started working with this guy and he’s in his late 40’s and married, apparently ex army, and gave guys drives to the centre of town after we finished work, he offered me a lift, and I was with some other guys so it was ok, thought nothing of it.
But now, I got a lift from him on my own and he was gonna go one way and he went another, turned out it was a backroute on a motorway to nearer where I lived, but my I got really worried, then he kept saying ‘do you know where we are’ as a joke and I had a roundabout idea, so he couldn’t fool me however, the minute I got in that car I knew it was a big mistake, like gut instinct.
Ok, that finished, and I vowed never to have a lift from him again, and for the last few weeks he has been very very persistant in wanting to give me a drive home, and even when I said my dad would drive me to work he said ‘no, it’s ok I’ll do that’ and I had to forcefully tell him no, my dad would do it. I told my father all about what’s been going on, plus various work collegues have also known about his behaviour, he always laughs at his own jokes but no one elses, and lies alot about what he’s got etc.
But they are saying that I should still get a drive from him, when my friends are in the car with him, but I still refuse.
Now I’ve changed routine and got a different job now in the warehouse, and they’ve been laying off alot of people. However, this guy apparently keeps asking if I’m gonna get the chop and it’s really worrying me.
So what should I do?