Or, she’s just a stuck up twatwaffle.
Not EVERYONE who speaks to her is trying to hit on her.
Yeah, if she doesn’t want to get hit on, she’s stuck up bitch.
http://resources2.news.com.au/images/2010/12/21/1225974/254522-hart.jpg
Keerist! She looks like Frankenstein’s freaking monster in this pic.
Fuck it, Jess. I’ll follow your advice, and NOT approach you.
She’s also banging Paris Hilton’s ex. That is one nasty pool to be swimming in. Herp city.
A lot of people go to bars to socialize with their friends and co-workers, not random strangers. I’m one-tenth as attractive Jess Hart on a good day and I have a far more negative reaction if some guy I had never met comes over and starts bothering me.
Yeah… Um, thanks for the link to wikipedia about a term other than the one I used.
But, even your first sentence doesn’t hold water.
With respect, you are confusing the term “technical obesity” to mean fat. What it in fact refers to is an unhealthy lack of muscle on a frame with an otherwise normal mass of body fat and skeletal mass.
i.e.
Let’s say a woman carries 39 pounds of fat on her. Let’s say her skeletal system weighs 40 pounds, and let’s then say she has 45 pounds of muscle. She weighs 124 pounds. Her body fat is 32%.
She’s not skinny, but she’s not fat at this level. I don’t think the skeletal # is proportional but for the sake of argument, let’s call this a reasonably healthy set of proportions.
Now, this perfectly healthy attractive women looks in the mirror and she sees that her legs are thick, and her arms are thick, and her middle is thick compared to the standards of beauty. She diets and loses muscle and fat (as you must when you diet.) Fat doesn’t cost calories to carry, but muscle does, so as she loses weight her daily caloric requirement drops.
She reaches a weight that she is happy with and feels she looks good. When she returns to what was her previous maintenance diet she gains weight because she has less muscle. Eventually she diets again and she loses more fat and muscle. The muscle stays off, the fat doesn’t. As she gets out of her teens muscle just doesn’t grow on her the way it used to. She has to exercise to get it. Preferentially her body will preserve fat and consume muscle to accomodate her yo-yo dieting.
In her mid-twenties, she now thinks she looks better than ever. She weighs 105 pounds. Her body composition is now the same 39 pounds of fat, 40 pounds skeletal, and 24 pounds of muscle.
Her thighs and arms are skinny. Her hips are accentuated, her breasts stick out. She looks great by today’s standards of beauty. Her body fat is now 38%. She’s technically obese.
Really, why is it that guys feel so entitled to go over and start bothering women in bars anyway? Just out of curosity, what is the best way to reject the advances of somebody like Scylla without being a stuck up bitch?
I’m only 43. I just look 70.
From the Mayo Clinic: Normal Weight Obesity.
You’re working really, really hard to demean an attractive woman just because she isn’t interested in you, Scylla. What she really is, is out of your league.
I think she forgot her cue card that reads: I never get hit on. People think because I’m a model, I have tons of suitors and a rich boyfriend, but really I’m asexual and just read books all day. Boys won’t even say hi to me.
“Somebody like Scylla,” isn’t much of a pick-up artist, so it’s not such an issue.
But, since you ask. This is how I think she should handle it. She should smile, give the guy ten seconds of attention, say she is flattered but say she is with friends/engaged/has a boyfriend/coming down with Ebola and simply be decent about it. That’s her duty.
After having taken his shot and failed it is the duty of the guy to respect her wishes and then leave her alone.
Your OP is creepy and weird, as is your staring at random women. Why don’t you stare at your wife?
Because she’s not there. 
Why does she have to even do this much? Why do you think she owes you anything at all? She didn’t ask you to go invade her space. Why does she have to be gracious to someone who’s being rude to her?
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Suits me. If you see me in a bar, the responsibility for taking the initiative is yours. The fact that you’re quite lustworthy doesn’t adequately distinguish you from the overwhelming vast majority of your sex, and is therefore not a good basis for a relationship. And since you seem to think you’ve got too many guys coming on to you… you probably do. If and when you get tired of selecting from among those who do, I’ll be over here and you’re welcome to come over and start a conversation.
I’m 43 but look older, am excessively hairy everywhere except my bulbously huge head. If I turn my head fast I knock people over with my nose, I sweat all the time like the guy in Airplane which means that in spite of the most heavy duty deodorant my B.O. becomes noticeable 1/2 an hour after a shower. I’m married with 2 kids. I drive a Ford. I have a particularly grating personality.
What do you mean she’s out of my league?
Just shoot him?
So no one should approach her but she’s allowed to approach others if she’s interested?
Wanna be royalty.
If she catches me looking at her, she’ll tell me to take out the garbage.
She’s not really going to approach others. She was being sarcastic. Does it really make her “wanna be royalty” to want to be left alone, though?