Joe_Cool, with all due respect, His4Ever accused a protege of mine and, by extension, me of near blasphemy and wondered if our minds were being “warped by the evil one.” After a rather long dialog, she and I were able to establish that was not her original intent, nevertheless, the initial statement exists. This week, I told her, quite rightly, that her and your take on Christianity as presented here was driving me away from Christianity and that she was presenting a one-sided view of God. I do not consider that to be a “verbal rapist,” and I don’t consider to be the two to be of equal weight.
I have been persecuted by Christians for being different and for having a friend who was different (handicaps, in her case). I may not like it, but it is fact. By the way, the town I grew up in didn’t have Fundamentalist Christians, so it was actually mostly Presbyterians and Catholics doing the bashing (no offended to any of the three).
I read some of the stuff you’ve written in Cafe Society, and aside from a dispute about the exact possibilty of salvation for homosexuals (I’m still confused by the “Homosexuals are sinful”/“All that is necessary for salvation is to proclaim Christ as one’s Saviour” dichotomy), I don’t really have a problem with you.
I do have a problem with the constant drumbeat of “X is sinful. Y is sinful. Z is sinful. You’re all going to burn in Hell.” I’m not attributing this to you, or even necessarily His4Ever, but that is the way the message comes across. I’ve said this many times before, but I’ll give it one more shot. We are all sinful. None of us deserve salvation based on our own merits. Yes, God chides, punishes, and tries to get us to come closer to Him.
He also loves and heals. Ten years ago, He reached out to a woman in a mental hospital who believed she was already dead, who knew nothing but fear, pain, and despair, and brought her back to life and hope. At the time, I did not expect to make it out of the hospital. I was also misdiagnosed. I firmly believe that if it had not been for that miracle 10 years ago, I would not be typing these words today. I was nothing, worthless, and lost. My faith was tattered and blown away. God disagreed, and found me, not because of my own faith or merit, but because of His great love.
You will continue to preach what you believe, and I will continue to preach what I believe. Both of us, I suspect, are convinced at some level that we Know what God is. Please understand though, that I do not need to be convinced of my own or any other’s unworthiness. What I need to be reminded of is God’s love.
Respectfully,
CJ