Well I don’t actively support gay marriage if my relatives and in-laws are discussing it.
Male gay sex.
Like in the butt?
Exactly - there is too much of a stigma attached to that.
You could post your impressions on the videos - e.g. the gore and nudity.
You don’t have to listen to me (and indeed, probably shouldn’t), but if you haven’t come out in support of gay marriage to a bunch of conservative Christians, you’re missing out on loads of fun.
Nice Guys seem to think that being nice is all they need to bring to the table and girls should just fall at their feet in gratitude and lust because they’ve been nice. It’s pretty pathetic. We routinely mock them for it.
And then you bring us this. LESS abusive than previous relationships should not be the high water mark you’re aiming for. NOT abusive is the goal, not LESS ABUSIVE. “Yes I’m aware that I treat my wife like crap but in my defense she’s been treated worse by others in the past” is not actually a defense.
Do you participate in any sort of therapy or counseling, either as an individual or as a couple? You ought to.
Who the hell is JohnClay and why should I care that he’s gay?
Oh, THAT one. The guy dumb enough to take advice from us. :rolleyes:
Sir, we’ve agreed on some things and disagreed on more, but I think we can agree that you are as gay as fuck. Might as well get a rainbow sticker for your car. 
You don’t have to attach an actual stigma to it if you don’t want to go that far. You can use lube, or play with toys, or just do some finger stuff to work your way up to that.
No, it seems you, JohnClay, would rather discuss your relationship than your hobbies.
Like the stigma attached to mental illness?
Well, now we are all advising you to run off and join the circus.
But seriously, if you in fact broke up with your wife a few years ago due to advice from these boards it is no wonder she calls you a dickhead. We are like a talking dog that espouses on string theory and quantum gravity: we don’t know shit about your relationship.
And a conversation that I have quite often (with minor variations):
“Where are you going this nice fine day?”
(I said to the Puppy as he went by).
“Up to the hills to roll and play.”
“I’ll come with you, Puppy,” said I.
That makes me at least 15% dog, yes? In another 10 years or so, I might be all dog.
Well I do tell them sometimes that I don’t believe in God any more…
Nice guys would maybe avoid being abusive… I guess I’m missing your point.
Remember that you said:
You keep on going on and on about my relationship! I talked about a hobby I had (I made a computer game) and you act as if I said nothing! You should make up your mind.
It is astonishing to me that people continue to participate in these threads. (Yeah, I know, I’m here, but this is a one-shot thing, so nyeh.)
People complain when I don’t take advice from the forums… I can’t win.
Look I started a whole thread based on a hobby of mine (making a computer game) two months ago:
Until today it hadn’t received ONE reply. If it did get replies I would be discussing that. But it seems OTHER PEOPLE are the ones more interested in my relationship. Even Eliahna who initially claimed the opposite.
Well people can normally choose whether to have sex in the butt while mental illness is less of a choice. Initially I didn’t even agree that I had a mental illness.
What about this defense - my wife calls me an idiot, d***head and loser and sometimes gives me the finger and pokes her tongue out. Also just because I say things on the message-boards it doesn’t mean I’m saying the same thing to her.
I consider this to be a form of counselling. And we have the same doctor.
Conversation:
Did you buy me anything?
No.
You’re hopeless.
I’m joking.